I can see that by your postings.. he is very close .....when this first happened to your family did you do the regular crying, begging, pleading, asking him when things were going to change back to where they were????and if you did was was his response???
M-53 H-46 M-24+YRS BOMB-10/14/07 2-S 2-D Grandkids-7 Greatgrand kid-1 He needs space... Wants to start fresh new life W O/W Moved in his O/W Oct.08
I did not beg, cry or plead anything. I did attempt to tell him how I and others saw OW and what she was really like. He listened but he had to come to those conclusions. This was over two years ago and I have changed the way I handle things.
If I cry now, it is very rare and he is okay with it.
I didn't really beg him to come home either. I asked him about two years ago when he was coming home and he said when he was ready and in his time.
I don't ask him things like that. It is not worth it. Only God knows...........
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
