Well! I went in to write on the mirror tonight, and everything was gone. Still without a word. Which leads to the thought that when she asked the kids not to clean the mirror it wasn't because she wanted to save the stuff, but that she wanted to do the cleaning, rather than "making" them do it.
But, I still managed to write: Do you want a banana split when you get home?
With check boxes for yes and no.
I was disappointed to see everything gone, without even a word.
I am sorry Jeff. She probably thought you ll keep doing it and you needed some space... Let's see if she ticks any of the boxes. I would say she will not tick any one.
Think positively and outside of the box. Your goal should be any kind of reaction from her.Get her out of the apathy state. This woman needs to feel alive. You should be able to do it. You know her well enough. Now...forget what you know and do some work... (I sound like FG) Love K
I'm sorry Jeff. I loved all the messages you were doing. She sounds like my H. Doesn't want to look happy, or do ANYTHING that could possible be construde as giving you ANY hope. I want to shout. "you know, it IS ok to laugh with me once in awhile." He'll start and then catch himself and turn it off. When I read this sitch, I swear it sounded like the same kind of thing.
God forbid they show any happiness with us at all. I'm so sorry. Switch it up, keep your chin up. No matter what she says (or doesn't say) she IS seeing all of this.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
