Thanks, kat. I have come a long way, but I have so much further to go. Keep your friends close these next few days. They don't replace the emptiness you feel where H used to be, I know. But they are your preciousss. My own tank is empty and I long for the touch from my love. But until then...
(((((Kat)))))
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
They must be feeling sorry for me I guess and want to keep this all on one thread.
I called HR to see how I would need to do the medical. I have to wait and see which day I am divorced on because there is a timeline related to that.
I called the Insurance company and got his car off of my insurance. They were asking about homeowners and wanted to know if we were already divorced. I said no and they said once you get him off your deed and refinance then call them. I don't know that I can afford to keep the house in my name alone so another question for L.
I've cried some but I have to do this now. I am sure I will have more questions pop up even after this is done, but if you guys think of any shoot them my way and I will see about asking L.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
(((Kat))) Just wanted to stop by and give you a hug. Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Just a thought but maybe you could start a post entitled money matters or something like that on the surviving divorce thread. They would probably be better able to answer your questions. I know it's hard, but I'm sure I'll be asking the same questions soon.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Thanks Corey, Karen and Yoyo for your hugs. They are greatly appreciated. I guess I won't be divorced today so it must be tomorrow afterall. I had to call H to see if he could help me with a dr apt for S15. He said he will but he sounded terrible...sick not sad. He was on his way home. I just told him not to die.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
He said he will but he sounded terrible...sick not sad. He was on his way home. I just told him not to die. kat
Not yet anyway...
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I was surprised that you don't know what's going to happen with the house. Isn't this in the sep agreement? You need to really concentrate on this right now and make sure everything is taken care of. I'm worried about you.
this isn't a R anymore. It's a business deal, and you need to make sure you don't get really burned. For your children as well as for yourself.
