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Yea, but you are listening to Him. And acting accordingly. It was supposed to start at 7, but if anyone wants another time - speak up.


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I am listening and I don't think God is too happy with H. I guess it will be done Friday at the latest unless God steps in and yells in H's ear.

Or g. did you think God was telling me to get on with it, this is broken, you need a fresh start??

Just remember you promised to hold on tight during the movies...I am pretty sure I am going to need it!

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That is a good idea to watch the movies with a friend. Only I don't have any friends that I am close enough to go watch movies with. I am really lacking in the local friends department. Lots of great friends around the country, lots of people I am friendly with around town, but no one I am super close with here. Maybe that is why losing my H as my best friend is hurting so much? That guy I was hanging out with hasn't really contacted me much in a few weeks. I know he is really busy with his job and his own divorce, but I was enjoying movie nights with him.

Maybe God is trying to tell your family something. That he is very displeased with your H's behavior and choices?
I don't think you H would hear God's voice if he used a bull horn right in his ear.

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Maybe Satan needs to pay him a visit instead but I don't think the guy downstairs would be willing to give up such an easy mark. I can't believe I just said that, but it is kind of funny so...

Sara I guess the worst case, you could go to your Mom and Dad's or do you have a fellow teacher that you are friends with? Give her/him a call and see if they want to watch a couple of movies with you in your movie group.

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I think God DOES talk to them. I know He has spoken to my wife. They just refuse to listen. Too wrapped up in themselves. I think He has actually YELLED at her.

She is deaf.

Satan did do his thing. He threw the temptation at them. They fell for it.

We are here for you Kat. Maybe your H WILL get his hearing back.


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Originally Posted By: hopeful4her
I think God DOES talk to them. I know He has spoken to my wife. They just refuse to listen. Too wrapped up in themselves. I think He has actually YELLED at her.

We are here for you Kat. Maybe your H WILL get his hearing back.

H4H, I think you are right! I hope your H does start listening, Kat, although either way I know you will be good!

Netflix is supposed to ship the italian job to me today and I already have the other one, so I think I should be good to go. 7 sounds fine to me! Karen


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Then it is a movie date!! L just let me know that now H thinks they have his income figures wrong, after he agreed to everything!! So I don't where this puts us. On hold until tomorrow maybe?

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Originally Posted By: hopeful4her
I think God DOES talk to them. I know He has spoken to my wife. They just refuse to listen. Too wrapped up in themselves. I think He has actually YELLED at her.

She is deaf.

Satan did do his thing. He threw the temptation at them. They fell for it.

We are here for you Kat. Maybe your H WILL get his hearing back.



My wife TOLD me, after she ended her affair and when she begged me to take her back, that she had "heard this voice" throughout her affair. Initially, she said she could just block it out. But that grew harder to do, and that, at the end, The Voice got so loud that it was deafening to her, and that she knew it was the Voice of God Himself, convicting her of her sin. She also said that He spoke thru other people to her.

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I am still holding out hope even when it seems hopeless!

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That's good. I will tell you, I was completely, 100% "done" when my wife begged me back. Divorce papers were served, I was completely detached and in fact SO much so that I was PISSED that her timing was then!

Never saw it coming.

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