i think of my exes doing the same stuff with their new trash (not that I was old trast but come on now...anyone with a self-esteem would run from them like they were a speeding train)
and
i have to laugh
because I thought that stuff was ok when i did it
but now I know how much better it can be
sending hugs your way
and
some ice and some AC and whatever else cools you down
One other thing to remember: It's hard enough for people who are happy and well-adjusted to build a successful relationship - just think how much more difficult it is for someone as screwed up as your typical WAS!
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
One other thing to remember: It's hard enough for people who are happy and well-adjusted to build a successful relationship - just think how much more difficult it is for someone as screwed up as your typical WAS!
That is SUCH a good point! I will have to keep that in mind.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
wish I could respond to everyone by name but to many to mention. Thank you all for your responses!! My X is unstable no doubt. I heard he got a new puppy a while back. He is alrady needing some new form of happiness since getting married is the way I see it. poor schmuck.
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
Man how do you keep up with the shedding? I had 1 dog that shed and it just about drove me nuts, of course to me the cat hair would really be the worst.