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I don't know have anything else to add that hasn't been already said. Just know that I am so sorry for you pain.

Hugs, Yoyo

The 180's Im doing are for me, but I chose things that I could improve about myself but they also happened to be things that he and I had discussed before. I lost weight (38lbs!), started dressing more femininely, wearing makeup. I think that I look great, and I also think that hes noticed. Hes just so wrapped up in the other girl to notice that Im his wife, not his sister, which is how I think he thinks of me right now.

When they are in their "fog" it takes a while for them to come out of it. There is nothing you can do to hurry it up. Just keep doing these things for yourself. We all are here for you and totally understand the pain you are experiencing. We will try to give you advice and encouragement.

Im doing the 180's for both of us honestly. I picked things that were things we discussed as being things that put distance in the physical part of out attraction. Its also things that draw attention to me from other men, and that makes me feel GREAT! I know hes noticing the changes, he commented on how good I looked today.
He dropped the papers off today. I only cried a little. And I started to get a little frisky with him before he left. He seemed like he enjoyed it. As he left I wrote "I want your body" in the dirt on his truck. Its raining, so it wont last, but he saw me writing it, and didnt wipe it away. I feel like it went pretty well.

I dont know why I started to feel frisky, I think that its because we just had so much fun yesterday, and even with the papers we were laughing. It just felt so good to play with him again. Holy Hormones Batman!

Anybody have any feedback on what happened today? Im thinking about using this time to go dark. But Im really afraid that hell just use that as a chance to have uninterrupted fantasy time with the OW.