I'll let you know when I start dating (poor fool, he wasn't even gone two weeks when he said this one)
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
"I'm just being honest" "I just don't want to be married anymore" "she's a good person, a good friend" "mother of my child is a good person too" (these are 2 different people) do you see a pattern here....
can we include a love child.......how about a pregnant OW doll
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Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
How about; I just dont want to try I need to be on my own Our son or daughter will be just fine I dont want to waste another minute of my life I want life to be about me now. I took care of everyone else, no its my turn
OMG Patty, this thread is hysterical! Thanks for starting it!
I'll add:
*I never should of married you *Your mother forced us to get married *The ow and I are just friends, you have nothing to worry about because she is an ugly lesbian anyway. *I went cruisin' in an El Camino today *Don't my sun glasses make me look super cool?! *I am tired of making everyone else happy, it's time for me!
"as long as the kids know we both love them they will be fine" "God is a forgiving God" (forgiving yes but you have to stop doing what is wrong) "I made a mistake" "You need to quit crying in front of the kids" "it's time to show the kids how strong you really are"
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Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
"You know I'd never screw you over "( as in the financial settlement)
"Don't try to make me feel guilty by bringing up the kids. They're MY kids too, you know" (this after going months without contact with them)
"They (the kids) have their own lives to live"..(reasoning as to why he/she should be able to do whatever they want now)
"You deserve better and so do I" (yep...won't even comment on that one)
"We've grown apart", "We've outgrown each other"
"We don't have anything in common" (Again, hmmmm. Does an OP the same age as his/her kids have more in common with him/her?)
"I'm sorry I wasn't as strong as you". (?????? WTH????)
"Leave my mother out of this" (said as WAS is living with their mother, and MIL is DEFINITELY involved with WAS decision making)
"I do not whine" (said in a whiney voice)
"I don't know (repeat this phrase whenever any question is asked..even if it's just to ask them what they want for a meal!!LOL)
"I have enough frustration at work, I don't need more when I come home"..(as the answer for not being able to answer the above question of what they would like to eat. Yup..actually happened)
"Why do you want to know"
"I always have to initiate..why do you never initiate" (well, if you ever give a person a chance in between, and perhaps just a LITTLE romance, maybe they would)
"I'll help out, just ask" (but when they see you disposing of household items because you have to sell the house they don't offer. Or when you're trying to maintain said household on your own, inside/outside, and your mother gets injured by a power saw trying to help out...WAS doesn't jump to help or apologize, or even call his/her MIL to offer apology for not doing work in the first place)
"We just went to a movie..it doesn't mean anything (Answer you get when your own sons have 'outed' dad to you, letting you know his vehicle was outside OP residence most nights of the week) And of course, he hasn't even filed or 'decided' he wants divorce yet.
Yup....
The companion doll..let me think about that one awhile. Of course, the head of the doll would have nothing but an empty space between the ears.
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible
How about a doll with removable heads for when the MLCer has different days....
Angry, Sad, Happy, Drunk,etc...
Oh that would be fun....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
Now I'm laughing harder cause Amy spit her pop on the screen..
It is funny.....
"I didn't want to hurt you" (like it doesn't hurt now) "We'll always be a family" (in whose world) "I do care" "I'm doing the right thing" "its whats best for everyone" (my D told him, it's whats best for him) "i'm not going to wake up and regret anything"
Can we get a doll that apologizes? I realize we don't hear that from an MLCer so I want my doll to say it....LOL
and can we do like they do for webkins and name our doll on the web....give them rooms....mabye not feed them for a few days and see what happens....
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Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
Definitely gotta have the webkins tie-in thing!! No food, no water, maybe falling off a 10-story virtual building....
A few more lines: "I don't wear my ring because I just don't feel married any more. It doesn't mean I'm having an affair." followed by-- "Of course I wouldn't start dating; that wouldn't be right because we're still married." "I just don't have anything left to give this marriage." "If you didn't want to see your child(ren)so distraught, maybe you should've worked harder on this marriage." "It's too late." "We've never been compatible." "This is the best thing for the kids." "I deserve better than this."
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
