I had to play my hand a little bit yesterday. Her friends at work knew about it and they told me she was going to go out to get a pedicure on her own. So I called her and told her about the first surprise. I had to switch it to a manicure. This mornignn she was talking about working out of one of her other offices which ruins surprises 3 and 4. I have to come up with a plan to get her back to her main office. I think she might catch on once she gets the second surprise and hopefully stick around.
Who knows if things go very well then maybe we will get a room down in the French Quarter. Our niece said she would watch the kids through the night. That would be the first night we both spent away from the kids together in about 3 years
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
Well, you know I don't think that is a bad thing that you had to tell her. It gives her a little bit of time to absorb it all and a bit of mental preparation. If she doesn't get it and plans to work from another office just say that you think it would be a really good idea if she works from that office today (laughingly!). Hopefully her colleagues will pitch in and help you out a bit!
I know you won't but don't plan on the French Quarter, think of it more as an added bonus if it happens :-)
Julia, did you text back? I think keeping it simple is good, acknowledging the text but no R talk. Thank you, yada yada.
(((Julia))) I think regardless of the reason for remorse, having it is a good thing.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Thanks Lola. I feel strange because I feel a tiny bit happy at the text but my general mood is sadness at the situation and also a little frustrated that I am going to have to be extra patient. He has said he can't come and help for the next two weekends and I can't make the one after that. I'm not good at patience and seeing him has made me want/ miss him so I am going to have to detach all over again.
I sent a text saying 'Thanks, I understand. This is difficult for both of us.'
I just feel a little shattered from this week and I have a lonely weekend stretching out in front of me. I am trying to plan but everyone is busy so I thought I might just get a train somewhere and go out for the day.
You handled yourself beautifuly this week. The emotions are normal and it is good he felt some as well. I hope you have a great weekend and the train ride is nice
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
