I suppose we are piecing now. It's seems so odd to be here. I joined DB May 4th & was so angry I didn't think it would ever pass. Now here it is June 29th, & we've had some really nice days together. I'm not mad anymore. I even apologized to him for a few things. We're making real progress & I'm not terrified that he's going to go back to the way he was.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Hi SC, you and Gypsy get me so confused with all the threads...
I like this one better that anyone before though. Good things happen to good people. That's for sure. I am happy you felt comfortable enough to come "here". Ohhh, and have some of my pixie dust!!! There you go! Now you can fly... (gForce told me this on my thread-silly mood again) Love K
Kalni, thanks for the pixie dust. You're a sweetie.
Gypsy, I love a peanut gallery. Especially with you as one of the peanuts. hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Hello smartcookie, Wow I am so happy for you. I have been following your threads. You have been an inspiration to me. One of your posts gave me the deepest empathy to what my WAW was possible going through. I was able to write the most heartfelt apology to her because of it. My WAW had our first one on one since she left 7 months ago. I don't know where we will end up but I never thought we would even get this far. So thank you and thank you to be able to see a positive outcome.
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Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
Good morning... just thought I'd say hi and keep you running all over the boards to catch up with your people! LOL.
You are doing good work sweetie. I hope it's healing for you to help so many by opening your heart and allowing those that are hurting inside. Take good care.
Hello smartcookie, Wow I am so happy for you. I have been following your threads. You have been an inspiration to me. One of your posts gave me the deepest empathy to what my WAW was possible going through. I was able to write the most heartfelt apology to her because of it. My WAW had our first one on one since she left 7 months ago. I don't know where we will end up but I never thought we would even get this far. So thank you and thank you to be able to see a positive outcome.
Aw, thank you so much for letting me know that. I'm so happy for you. I'm so thrilled that you've made it this far. I wish you all the best. Please keep me posted.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
You are an Inspiration and a wealth of insight and information.
JAK
Thank you.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
