I hope you have a great day, checking in on your post, keep to the high road, its all you can do, you have a hell of a lot of stuff going on in your life. I wish I could impart some amazing advise but you know me, the old stubborn German. All I can do is pray for you and hope everything works out the way you want.
Good luck
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
I always keep up with your situation.....so similar......You have a month left with her you said. What can you do this last month that could change where your situation is headed? What might you wish you did a month from now when you are alone at home and W is in her apartment? Think hard about this.
I am thinking about what would have stopped me......when my H knew everything and I asked God for forgiveness....that's what stopped me.....repentence......... The feeling that I can't leave without trying EVERYTHING....retrouvaille and stopping contact with OM.