M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
My H had to start real small. He would take a dry erase marker & draw a smilie face on our bathroom mirror.
He also sent nice or silly or romantic e-cards. I liked them.
try it. go on. *nudge nudge*
Dare I say "bend".
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
I really like the letter idea. It doesn't have to be romantic- if W is practical, just a short note about how you saw something that reminded you of her. You know what will work, of course!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
