Corey, I know EXACTLY how you feel about being left and left w/the responsibility! I feel the same way. I just asked myself yesterday "why did H leave me?!" I know the answer to some of it, but not all. I just got laid off from my job on Tuesday and now have D to take care of with not much income. It sucks. BUT we WILL get thru this!!!
You guys are so great. I don't know what I'd do without my cheering section...probably commit a felony. LOL.
Took DD to Build a Bear today because my Dad and his wife got her a gift certificate for her birthday. She is a HUGE fan of the dust catchers. I also call her raccoon, because she is easily distracted by shiny things, thats my girl. Anyway, we (DD, DS and I) went to B-A-B today. She picked their signature bear and his name is "bearamy", so DS pops off and asks her if she is going to name it Ron...Ron Bearamy? WTH? I almost died!
My 12 year old watched the Surreal Life and then the True Hollywood story on Ron Jeremy and is now making jokes about it? I think I'm going to need a xanax. I laughed cuz it was funny, but OMG! I don't think I knew the name of ANY porn stars until I started working at a Video Store when I was 16 and that was only cuz some of the customers were creepy old guys that said inappropriate things to what looked like a sweet 16 year old. Yeah, that didn't last long. Looks can be deceiving I wasn't able to keep my mouth shut then either.
HAVE A HAPPY 4TH EVERYONE!!! Fireworks are legal here so I will go out shortly and watch my neighbors attempt to burn their houses down because if there are two things that definately go hand in hand its alcohol and explosives! Yee Haw!
Our neighbors put on quite a show. They have many illegals and its a 3 day weekend...oh joy!
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M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I got two texts from the Troll today. Apparently she and H are fighting or something so she texts me and tells me to give him a message to call her...because I'm now their f*cking answering service? I txtd her back and told her he wasn't here so she would have to tell him herself. Then I get another one that says, "You'll see him before I do and his phone is off.So just give him the message." I only sent back a text that said, "I forwarded the text." I could have gone off on her, but my kids were outside with me and really, whats it going to prove? I just really don't want to have anything to do with her. I fwd the texts to H and called MIL and asked her to have H call me. He did and I told him and he kept saying, "just ignore her." So I told him that was all I wanted and hung up.
WHATEVER!! I'm not really even mad, its just so dumb. I can't wait until we get this stuff filed. I will feel like I can breathe a little better then. Right now I kinda feel like I have to play the game until he signs off the house, maybe not. Who knows. I'm better today though. Not sad or anything, a little stressed about $$, but it'll all work out one way or another. I might need to start thinking about a 2nd job, something I can do part-time for some xtra cash. Any thoughts?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I got two texts from the Troll today. Apparently she and H are fighting or something so she texts me and tells me to give him a message to call her...because I'm now their f*cking answering service? I txtd her back and told her he wasn't here so she would have to tell him herself. Then I get another one that says, "You'll see him before I do and his phone is off.So just give him the message." I only sent back a text that said, "I forwarded the text."
I think your H is right about ignoring her. That's crazy that an OW would even text you like that!!! I would just delete any texts she sends you and ignore them. I have to think she is trying to mess with your head or something, and if you delete & ignore them hopefully she will get the message that it's not working? Karen
Responding to her will only upset you more in the long run since she'll repond back to you as well. Ignore her games. She's probably trying to rile things up. She's not worth it at all.
Apparently H turned his phone off because they were arguing and so thats why she texted me. We went to MIL's to do fireworks and when we showed up H wasn't there...can you guess where he was? He turned on his work phone and I guess she doesn't have that # so thats the one I'm supposed to call him on, whatever. He couldn't help but go and get his personal phone though and carry it around all night. Its just stupid and sometimes I really don't know why I bother at all. Anyway, the kids had fun and H, DS and I sat around outside for a while afterward and talked and it was nice, kinda like it used to be, but I know it'll never be like that again and in the grand scheme of things thats probably a good thing. LOL.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I don't think I knew the name of ANY porn stars until I started working at a Video Store when I was 16 and that was only cuz some of the customers were creepy old guys that said inappropriate things to what looked like a sweet 16 year old. Yeah, that didn't last long. Looks can be deceiving 
I wasn't able to keep my mouth shut then either. 
I got two texts from the Troll today. Apparently she and H are fighting or something so she texts me and tells me to give him a message to call her...because I'm now their f*cking answering service? I txtd her back and told her he wasn't here so she would have to tell him herself. Then I get another one that says, "You'll see him before I do and his phone is off.So just give him the message." I only sent back a text that said, "I forwarded the text." I could have gone off on her, but my kids were outside with me and really, whats it going to prove? I just really don't want to have anything to do with her. I fwd the texts to H and called MIL and asked her to have H call me. He did and I told him and he kept saying, "just ignore her." So I told him that was all I wanted and hung up.