he needs to get out of your house. I know you hope he will come around but I don't think this situation is going to help and it seems it is prolonging a weird status. He is not going to be missing "the home" you two had if he still comes in and plays house with your Ds with or without you.
Just ny oppinion darling.. K
I completly agree K...I am just waiting for the appointment with the Ds T. Unfortunately that isn't until next Monday. Then I will be putting my foot down or up his ars. I know he isn't coming back, and I don't want him to anymore. I deserve more.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Wow, so I am offline most of the day and you guys decide to visit. Woog I know, trust me, I am counting the days until next Monday when I tell him no more of me leaving MY home. You guys are right, he chose to leave, he needs to be gone. I just need to confront him about it in the presence of a sane T. He actually values what the D's T thinks so that is why I want to do it then. If I do it before then he will think I'm being unreasonable.
I got really angry and pissed at him today. I was trying to set up new internet service all on my own. I had to move furniture all around in the family room. H has something big in that room that should have been moved out 18months ago. Now he has been saying that he is going to take it to his office for over a month. I am so angry that his stuff is still in the house he chose to leave 8months ago.
On a positive note...I went to dinner with some very good friends tonight. I wore a new outfit and looked pretty good. Well I realized on the way the low cut top kept letting the girls out. At least I had on a new, cut bra from VS. From dinner I went to Ds soccer game. H was there but of course we didn't sit together. When I got up to leave he mention my top. After leaving he sent me a text "Keep your boobs in your shirt!" I sent back "No one else complained and i have to show my new bra." No response from him on that...I guess he didn't appreciate that much.
Hope that isn't TMI for you Jeff
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Issues is right Woog! Yesterday I spent a couple of hours in the evening trying to get my new highspeed hooked up myself. It wouldn't work on our dinosaur of a desktop. I did get it installed on the laptop but couldn't get it to work wireless. H and told D he would work on it tonight. When I got home he had the wireless working. Then I asked about the desktop and he got that working. Argh, I hate when he does something that I couldn't...I really wanted to do it myself. Funny thing, he also hooked his laptop up to the wireless. I said "Oh, Daddy is piratin our wirless." D said well it is his too. I said "I guess it is in his name." Nothing from H.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
