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Gypsy...

You don't sound like your having a very good day. I read what you posted on Mike's thread.

1. We are all human.
2. God don't make no junk.
3. We can only post with an opinion as to how we preceive the sitch.
4. If we are wrong, we apologize and go on.
5. Are there clicks? Maybe or just a bunch of people that hit it off and care but in the end we all are here for each other.
6. You are a beautiful butterfly

{{{HUGS}}}

Brian

I know you see your faults magnified (don't we all... well except those narcissists we love(d)). Trust me, though, when I tell you that others do not see your faults, but only your magnificence that shines through so very brightly.

I really, really admire you and I'm sorry we're walking the funky path right now. It will pass eventually, I am sure.

xoxoxoxoxo,
R.

P.S. I'm very confused on where to post. Are you and cookie playing a private joke on the rest of us with these multiple threads? =)

No wonder I can't seem to keep up! Multiple threads! I get so confused with just one.

Gypsy - You have such a beautiful soul. I understand the pain and confusion but think of it as the catharsis you need to break out of your cocoon and fly!

Be well!

You don't sound cowering. You sound active and productive. You are taking responsibility for your life and making things happen. You should be proud.

Hey lovely. Got your message. Will ring you when I get home.

xo,
R

P.S. I agree completely with mishka and gForce. =)

Oh man, Brian..

You are a sweetheart.. thank you.

I couldn't believe how that 'crumpling' feeling kicked in. My own anxiety wove its own drama within my head. It's okay for folks to get upset with me; I won't fall over and die (though that is the underlying message going through my head).

I think of how things have changed for you in leaps and bounds. It's amazing what happens when people congregate to help each other.

Thanks again!

*hugs*

Ms. imp..

What goodness and light you give! I put a note on my thread in Newcomers that sends folks here. This area might be my woman cave (is there such a thing?!?).

What a great term.. 'funky path'.. so true. Hearing my sis-in-law mimic how shazsplatt talks about how his girlfriend is "soooOOoo wonderful" keeps playing in my head. Change the tape, Kathleen.. change the tape.

Hope to talk to you soon.

*hugs*

Okay, okay ms mishka..

I'll stay in one place. I'll keep working on getting out of my own way.

Thanks!

*hugs*

Wow, g..

Coming from you, it sounds like I'm doing much better than I give myself credit for.

I'm avoiding calling the lawyer and finishing the household expenses. It's no doubt my continuing method of passive resistance. Letting go is letting go of everything, isn't it?

Toss it aside then see what happens.

....ccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccclinggggggggggggg-a-ding...

I'm evolving to sticky, rather than stuck.

*hugs*

Then give yourself more credit. This sh*t is hard. Nobody does it exactly "right", heck nobody really knows for sure what right is. You are evolving, and evolving is an accomplishment. Our WAS's are the one's that are stuck.