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And thats why we are here. To learn how to "beat" what appears to be unbeatable.

Hey kat, thats doing something different. Something you don't usually like to do.

And going out to meet "real" people. Thats what I'm going to have to learn how to do again.

Hello,

I am officially threadless so I thought I would com in and say hello, I do not understand any of this trekky stuff and I will see you on FB.

Mods have deleted all 6 threads that were still available. Thank you mods.

I'm sorry that you felt that you had to leave Denise, but I do understand. I will make sure to keep up with you. Just watch yourself.

You don't have to be a Trekkie to be my friend. I bought H all of the movies and a 1st year of the series. He has them but he might let me borrow them. I also got him all of the Star Trek ornaments that Hallmark put out, those he didn't take with him so I guess they are mine now.

Shake off the nostalgia, kat and get on with it.

kat

Kat, you continue to surprise. From Hellboy to Trek -- fantastic! Just remember, in the end, Spock realized that the needs of the ONE sometimes outweigh the needs of the many.

I have a Star Trek ornament that D14 gave me many years ago. She was precocious even then.

Why did your threads get deleted, Denise?

Oh cause OW was reading them and then getting upset and contacting my husband who was in turn blaming me for making her upset by writing about him on the internet so then he needed to come on to see what I was writing so he could defend himself(make up new lies). And I really didn't need them both reading my innermost thoughts.

Oh, you asked the mods to delete them. I misunderstood. I thought you thanking the mods was sarcasm, and that they were deleted against your wishes. Sorry the aliens invaded you. I hope you still have a place to vent and talk. And I was just starting to getting acquainted with your sitch, too.

I misunderstood also, Snow and I thought you had said something in your posts that was mean and since that didn't sound like you, I was really confused. I wish there was somehow to fix it so our spouses and their OP couldn't see the boards.

Ummm...so Kat how are things going today?

Sara

My best friend just called and I vented a bit to her. She won't even be in the same room with H. Her husband is a really good friend of my H (and mine) but he won't say anything because it is between us. They are renting a house to him so they have sort of got involved anyway.

But her H has helped me with stuff here at my house and I know he would do anything that he could for me. He really knows how to be a friend.

Hey and it was Kirk that said sometimes the needs of the one outweigh those of the many, but he was referring to Spock( or maybe himself in that it was his need of Spock that caused Spock to come back).

I'm not looking forward to being divorced just have accepted that it is going to happen.

kat

While trying to help Karen with her picture taking, see that H sent me a text seeing if I survived the sleepover. lol What the frack is that all about? Why does he care? And he does but he keeps plowing ahead with the divorce.

I am not going to reply, I just can't get wrapped up in it.

kat

"Frak" doesn't have a "c" -- but I like it.
I think they act caring sometimes so they can point back at these moments and say "see, I was a good person during the breakup"
You are right not to get wrapped up in it. Enjoy the peace while it lasts, but don't read anything into it.