How weird! I had someone going the wrong way down a street divided by a median last night. I was able to change lanes and go around them, but it was scary!
Was it a full moon or something????
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I'll be thinking about you tomorrow. Remember, it's only papers. You're marriage is far from over.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
update: too little time to meet with SIL before personal trainer.. i snooped last night and SIL definately has the papers to serve me ..
i wonder if SIL and her BF are coming over for that... not just dinner...hmmm
regardless.. spoke to my coach this morning (Joann) and she said yes do the walks with your W.. even if you initiate it..
i will just take it for what it is..paper.. and i will say i am glad W picked her instead of a stranger to serve it.. W will wonder who the heck is this guy?? (she is expecting anger/crying etc)..
will update you as the night progresses... i went rafting yesterday and i have such a good tan
tomorrow is Canada day, so i am on day 3 of a 4 day weekend
And yes, it's JUST paper. Hell, realistically speaking your M is just paper too. The R though...that's different. And that isn't over because of a piece of paper or lack thereof. So don't let it get you down.
Keep up the great work.
Rafting sounds fun. Hope the walk tonight is fun as well.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I knew it was coming so i was VERY prepared for it. SIL and her BF(I play squash with him), came for dinner. We ate watched some tv, and then she wanted to come downstairs and "chat" LOL.. i knew it was coming and she almost didn't do it, but she did, and i just reacted with calm and " i am glad she got you to do it and not a stranger" thanks to i think ladybug for that suggestion.
I don't have anything else to say, they are upstairs and want to watch a movie, i'd rather go for a drive..
Sounds like you handled it amazingly. I'm sure SIL felt uncomfortable being the one to serve you the papers so you reaction and your being dignified and classy must have been a huge relief for her.
If you can stick it out for the night and be the great guy that you are I say hang out.. but if you are starting to feel angry or aggressive or agitated I think a walk or a drive would be better than a backslide.
Nice to meet a fellow Canadian.
I hope tomorrow is a better day for you. "Happy (early) Canada Day"
