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Wow, this has been a busy weekend!

Best news first.......I got an offer on my house!!!! Pretty good offer and we are supposed to do the contract today. They want to close by July 26th at the latest, so hopefully only one more mortgage payment for me! Yay! I am sooooooo excited about this.

The rehearsal dinner and the wedding went fine. I was so busy I didn't have time to even think about H. To be honest I probably had more fun than if he had gone (even if things were good). He always felt uncomfortable around my friends for some reason and so he always acted weird around them.

I didn't even think about yesterday being the bomb anniversary until this morning. I haven't even told H I filed, but I am going to send him an email today and let him know he has to go sign the papers at the lawyer's office.

I think seeing him or talking to him would be bad right now so I am going to avoid him. Still haven't talked to him since Monday.


lol, well, the groom DID ask me out first.....then when I turned him down he asked out my roommate


Right, didn't want to be anywhere NEAR that!

You are right pisces, our mommas know us pretty well. She has been great through all this and I don't know what I would do without her.

Whew! I'm already ready for next weekend!!!

(((Kris)))

Sounds like a great weekend!!!!

Glad things went well and you were busy and had TONS of fun.

Sounds like a nap today might be in order lol.

Went to a friends house and layed out all day, SO relaxing! I am so relieved that wedding is over.

I sent H an email about the D papers this morning. No word from him. I didn't mention anything about the house.

Sounds like fun!!! I'm jealous.

I didn't get a lot of sun, but as it's balmy today (only 88 lol) I have had all the windows and sliding glass door open while cleaning, enjoying the breeze and the fresh air (relatively speaking now that the fire closest to me is contained lol.

I hope the house sells!!!!! That would be so AWESOME!

He'll deal with things in his own time. Enjoy the last of your Sunday! (((Kris)))

Michelle,

It was pretty clear here today. I little foggy in the morning but it cleared up fast. first time I saw blue skys all week. (AND NO BURNT POPCORN SMELL).

Kris,

Ya I guess if the Groom could not have the Best He had to settle for second best. I only hope if things don't work out and you do get a divorce the "groom" doesn't start thinking... MAN I SHOULD HAVE WAITED......

DR,LOve

I guess I should change forums since I am no longer "piecing".

I did have a chance to really relax yesterday.

I have to go by the lawyer's office today and sign the papers. H is supposed to go tomorrow or Wednesday...no word yet if he is going to do that.

We are supposed to sign the contract for the house today. I can't find H. He doesn't have a cell phone anymore. I sent him an email, he hasn't checked it. I went by his apartment on my way home last night around 10 pm, he wasn't home. I went by there this morning on my way to work before 7, he wasn't home....so he obviously didn't stay there last night. I also went by his work and he wasn't there. Not sure what to do since I can't find him and have no way of contacting him other than going by there. This is so frustrating.

If we end up losing these buyers because I can't find H...I'm afraid I may go crazy and have to be put in a mental home. Seriously, I may lose it.

Just started a thread in the "Surviving the Big D" forum....guess I'll be over there from now on.

Kris,
I just got caught up with you. I am SOOOOO sorry! You should come join us in the affair forum! It is fun there. I was really routing for you.

I wonder if your H does have a sexual addiction problem or something like that. I think my H does. In 2006 we went through a crisis when he saw a prostitute when I was out of town one weekend. We went through counseling and I thought we had healed from that and then come the end of December and boom! an affair. I just wonder if it wasn't this woman if it would be another woman. I think the same for your H. It might be OW2 today and then OW3 a few months down the road.

You really had no choice but to file. Same as me...he left me with no choice. I don't know what was worse...walking in on your H with the OW or mine where the OW came to my house to tell me that she and H were having an affair. Regardless it all seems so surreal.

I am so glad to hear that the wedding went good. Back in October I was a bridesmaid in one of my college friends wedding. My H and I were getting along great at that time, but like your H he always felt a little weird around my college friends. He ended up going with me to the rehearsal, rehearsal dinner and ceremony but spent the reception time in the hotel watching tv. I had such a great time!!! Much better than I had when H was with me. I remember a friend telling me that was a sign that H and I had a good relationship...we could do thing seperate from each other. If only I knew then...

Anyhow....my heart totally goes out to you. Do you know OW2?