Back home from vacation, was gone all of 6 hours when he called OW. He did tell me and we had some good phone conversations when I was away. Now we had a long talk, says he is still getting over with her and I need to understand it. I want to,I really do, but I want to scream at him "what the F do you mean get over her I am your wife!!!!" trying to be supportative and letting him talk, he did read the section in DR about infidelity and says he realizes that he has to go cold turkey with her and he understands how much he hurt me and he is very sorry. I want to believe, but afraid to get hurt again, so am acting "as if he is telling the truth.
Me 40 H 41 T17/M14 Sons 7 and 4 OW - yes for over a year "I don't know what I want" 5/29/08
