Anyone want to join me in QLC or MLC? I think we have enough blue-eyed guys to go around!
I want me one who plays a mean guitar. I need to get back to my music and stop fretting (haha pun) ;)... over this screwed up H of mine.
Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
And a text saying that when he goes down to so cal for some training later this summer, maybe I should visit him on a weekend. I am so very tempted to take him up on that lol.
It is SOOOO good for the PMA. When I think about it too much, it gets weird in my head (me being S, but not actually D; am I just going after the same kind of attention that my H got out of his A; etc etc etc)- but when we're talking whether in person or tech wise, he makes me smile. I really liked hanging out with him.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
So, he sent me dates. He'll be down there from July 7 - September. It's even further away than we already are (5 hours then vs 3 right now). Of course, he'll also be staying in this cute little college town off post. I certainly wouldn't mind going down for a long weekend lol.
I think this is the ultimate in detachment lol.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Which town is it Michelle? I'm from SoCal so was curious.
redsawks - I'm going to faint dead away now!!!! Dark hair and big blue eyes.....melt.....
Michelle - Just be careful girl! Don't compare yourself with you H! You worked your DBing butt off trying to put your M back together but your H gave you nothing to work with. You can't compare yourself to him in any way!
QLC sounds good to me! I guess I'd have to classify mine as a MLC at my age. Oh God that's depressing. That's it....definitely going to have a MLC now!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Michele - you are so NOT like your H. You have been working so hard, and doing some of the best DBing I have seen. I think it is exciting that you have someone who is interested, and if you are ready for that, then why shouldn't you be excited?
Just take things slow and make sure it is what you want. Maybe it is time, but only you can be the ultimate judge of that.
I have a friend who said this: It is not a matter of if they come back, it is when, and only you will be able to tell if you even want them back at this point. Sometimes it is just too late. But only you can decide.
(((Michele)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I know logically that it's not the same. That I've been fighting for my M for a year. That we've been S for 11 months, whereas H & I were still living together, ML, etc. And while H insists he was trying since he'd gotten home from his deployment, I certainly didn't see it.
But at the same time, there are things about Hot Guy that remind me of my H. And that scares the $H!T out of me. Because I am terrified that things could end up the same way...which is TOTALLY getting ahead of myself lol. *sighs*
But I do like hanging out with him. I like him.
All QLC and MLCers are welcome here!!!!!!!!!! ((((((everyone))))))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
What if you are in between the QLC and MLC? I am not a quarter, but not quite middle aged yet ROFLMAO!!!
Anyway, I think we are all attracted to a certain kind of person...just be cautious. I am not saying you should jump into a full fledged relationship or anything like that, especially not now. You are just starting to find you, and once you have completed all of that, you may decide that this was just a nice flirtation and leave it at that. On the flipside, though, it could be more, but you need time to figure it out first.
What I am I saying??? You are doing great. I am feeling a little silly that I should even write that...
(((Michele))) you are an inspiration!
Lola
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
