Divorcebusting.com Forums Open Forums We're separated--What Now? Wandering Poster - Two Dozen

Morning Jeff,

I do believe your wife may be suffering from something. How could she not adore your wonderful sense of humor?

Does not compute.

Have a fantastic day.

P.S. Ali's costume made me throw up a little bit in my mouth.

Lmao omg you guys are killing me with this costume.

It was really gross...

Jeff I agree. Are you sure she is not depressed or something? Clincally? I mean, you have the gift of making anyone feel better.

Being serious for 2 small things:

There are a lot of people on here who think she is depressed...but if she won't do anything about it....what does our opinion matter?

I think it was a baby step that she thought about changing her schedule to see if she could go with you guys.

Now....back to the party!

On a serious note, sometimes humor between H and W is not the same as humor between friends. I hear all the time from friends 'how do you ever put up with your H when he's always like that?' They think he's always funny. Well, he's not like that all the time. It's like he uses it all up. I figure my H with me is quite a bit like Jeff is at home with his W and all the humor is saved for everyone else. Jeff thinks his W doesn't like his humor and W wonders why Jeff acts so different when she's around. Maybe not, just tossing 2 bits around.

That is all very true.

(((((Ali)))))(((((Kalni)))))(((((T)))))(((((Kelly Jo)))))(((((Julia)))))(((((Lola)))))(((((dar)))))(((((WCW)))))(((((W2G)))))
(((((Michelle)))))(((((girl)))))(((((Mishka)))))

Thanks for coming by!

Kelly Jo, you are always welcome here! As you can see, we have fun, but when we need to be, we are serious, too!

Ali, and T,
As far whether W feels excluded, interesting question. When it came to the baseball game we didn't go to Sunday, she had excluded herself. When we were planning, we were choosing between Saturday and Sunday. She didn't work Saturday, and did Sunday. She told us to go on Sunday. Even her parents were going to go with us! As far as the concert, I don't think she really wants to go. We told her she could come, she went in, and I'm guessing, looked at her schedule, and then said she didn't want to change it. (Which could lead to lots of other thoughts, but I am not going there right now!)

On the other hand, I think we'll try to figure out something for the 4th of July, and make sure she is included, unless she specifically chooses not to be.

As far as the humor goes, W has told me pretty directly that she doesn't like it. So, I don't do it. I have to think that she liked it at one point. So, sometimes I think it means she doens't like ME, rather than the humor. Maybe?

Is she depressed? I don't know. Does she have some issues a C might be able to help with? I think for sure! But, in this case, you can't even lead the horse to water, let alone make her drink!

And yes, those body stockings would be way too hot for Arizona in the summer!

OK, that was 295, and gave you guys something to respond to!

And this is 296!

Jeff...didn't you say that she asked if she could go....and you told her she works....and she said she might change her schedule...then decided not to......

I get the impression that she felt she wasn't welcome. That her offer to change her schedule was not well received....whether you intended that or not.......

297 and counting...

I think all of our WAS' could benefit from C, but you're right, you cannot make them.

Even if we could, it would not be right because they need to do it on their own for it to work.

Lets see if this gets locked or we actually get to 300!!!

As far as the humor....I am sure she did like it....but she probably feels like you don't take her or the problems you guys face seriously sometimes....it's probably not your humor she doesn't like, more the timing???