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So...............

I decided to check the board and who do I find? Kev I'm so happy for you!

Don't worry too much as to how the kids feel. Most likely they're a little brain washed, but I'd rather have it this way now, then for them to grow up thinking that you didn't fight for them.

The whole idea of changing a child's last name when they have a parent who is active and present is insane.....so really the onlything you won was what was right!

Love,
Bethie

I'm sorry Kev
yes it is bittersweet, it all is.
I remember being so excited about something I had "won" in the D, then realizing, wow, Im D!
that was a reality check

Whats the weekend plans??

So just another hit and run..........I see where this is going!

yup, typical male eh Bethie?

I resemble that comment.

Just sitting here drinking coffee and watching all the women in my life stomp my little fragile heart into a million pieces.

I thought that was what made life so enjoyable?

Feel the burn!!!

Totally!

I'm a glutton for punishment.

That's scares the hell outta me.

I hear ya cluckin', Big Chicken.

AH HELLO...what are we chopped liver? We sit around waiting and hoping for just a crumb, a teeny tiny crumb to be thrown our way from the great Bulldog and what do we get??? NADA that's what!!

Just because you have run into stupid women who don't appreciate how great you are doesn't mean we don't see it. All that really means is that they weren't good enough for you and it's good that it didn't get any further than it did. Kev, be patient. I believe that there is someone wonderful out there for you, you just haven't met her yet. Believe me, SHE will be the lucky one!

Love,
Bethie

Kev,

That is wonderful news! Good for you for standing your ground.

I had a couple of mishaps with a lost cellphone and a severed cable line but I'll find your email and send you a note and my number.

Hope all is well.

Hey did you notice that the College World Series was between two teams of Bulldogs - Fresno State (near where I spent some of my childhood) beat Georgia.

Maybe its the year of the Bulldog, huh?

Take care,

FL