No, I haven't heard from Sage, but I haven't been on the BB except to squeeze in an update for myself yesterday. Something up??
Now to your question....At FIRST the computer was a MAJOR issue. I had taken the cell phone, it's now mine. (I'd bought it for him after all )...but for a while after the A ended, every time I heard him on here my heart raced....Sometimes, but very rarely, it still does.
One of the things we did (after a time) was for him to give me access to the e-mail account he used to keep in touch with OW. Our deal was that neither of us was to touch it....it would disappear in a month. Only it didn't...which caused a bit of a kafuffle...it's dead now, Thank God!
Honestly, Tal, If CJ was downstairs all the time on his laptop, like he was a year ago, I think I'd freak out.
It's helped us a lot for this computer to be open, accessible, either one of us could walk by and check out the task bar if we wished. No sneaky screen changes (I'm hyper alert to those now )...And I suppose it's just time passing with no further evidence of any "mischief"...that does wonders for one's peace of mind!!
Well, glad to know it's not just me. Thanks for the feedback, much appreciated. I think I need to have a talk with H about this before he moves in. I will agree to no snooping, if he will agree to be transparent about his communications on computer & cell phone IF I ask.
Just wondering about Sage as she used to post regularly, but it's been awhile.
Boy can't believe you slept through CJ's advances!
Really that is rotten luck.
But overall sounds like when you guys have something come up that you discuss it pretty well and work through it.
I so wish I was there.
My house motivation is slipping. Not sure why. I guess I just want David home. You know not even home, just able to talk to me every day and visit regularly.
I know pitty party this morning on YOUR thread!
So pull myself up and get busy!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Tal, I think Sage might be on a getaway this weekend? I think her last postings suggest as much.
Hi Pam...you've probably just exhausted yourself for the time being! No one says you have to be a domestic dynamo every day he's gone!
I'll be right over.
Update: CJ got the laptop working so that he can be on-line at the same time as me. I think he's on line right now. I just sent him a little e-mail, no reply so far.
We've never done e-mails, I can probably count on my hands how many we've exchanged.
My Nana continues to do okay. Still in hospital though.
I still can't get over my "amnesia" the other morning... ...I DO wonder though...was 5 p.m. after I'd had only 7 hours of sleep a likely time to get lucky in CJ's mind??? (Oh, who am I kidding...I'd have taken it! )
Quoting shinybear: I still can't get over my "amnesia" the other morning... ...I DO wonder though...was 5 p.m. after I'd had only 7 hours of sleep a likely time to get lucky in CJ's mind??? (Oh, who am I kidding...I'd have taken it! )
Hiya Shiny,
I can answer this one. I'd woken my husband up in a way he fantasized about a few times in our past. Each and every time, he'd wake up enough to push me away and mumble "leave me alone."
When I asked him the next morning, he blushed and said he thought he was dreaming...and begged me to try again!
Yeah, I'm chocking that one up to the unusal sleep-hours and the sleeping pill. I'm usually very quick to waken and alert.
Well it's cool and wet here today, so perhaps no hackey sac at the Marina...we'll see.
Class went well, but I had a bugger of a time getting to sleep last night. Kept thinking of things to post to KAW...read through his threads for the first time last night!!!
CJ is on his laptop in the dining room. I'm a tad jealous as the view from our bay window there is quite lovely. JK! It's nice that we can both work at the same time.
)...but for a while after the A ended, every time I heard him on here my heart raced....Sometimes, but very rarely, it still does. 
)...And I suppose it's just time passing with no further evidence of any "mischief"...that does wonders for one's peace of mind!!
...I DO wonder though...was 5 p.m. after I'd had only 7 hours of sleep a likely time to get lucky in CJ's mind??? (Oh, who am I kidding...I'd have taken it! 
