I had a feeling your W might come to realize how she had acted. Funny how that works. Now if only if she can be like this all the time and you are willing to put your foot in your mouth and wait for her to fess up.
Lesson learned, patience over emotion gotta remember that...
wahey, and we are back on track. How cool is that !!! Some posts by others have got my back up today, but this is likely my last visit so glad to finish on this high.
This is really my last post as about to leave work.
Out tonight (playing poker) and I don't get on as much at the weekend as people always about at home. W out Sat night though so might pop on for a bit before I was some footy and boxing.
What a beautiful email from your wife, taking responsibility for her actions, explaining and apologizing.
Beautiful..
*hugs*
HI Gypsy,
Yes it was, not sure what to make of it, guess at this point will take it at face value. I admit I totally jumped the gun I 'reacted' instead of 'acted' on my own accord, lesson learned.
I hope you are havin a GREAT DAY
I appreciate you caring about D17 in your signature line it means alot to me {{{*TY*}}}
Brian, do you see how she's still convinced she's a b*tch. What's that all about ?
One way I respond to H when he apologizes......
"thank you, I appreciate your apology". It's clear, it doesn't excuse his behavior...I used to say "oh, it's allright" but it wasn't. Or something like "hey, we all have bad days, but I appreciate you recognizing what you did".
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
part of being husband & wife is being able to be yourself around the other without fear to show how you are feeling.
I don't know if I said what I meant right in this, but this is how it came out, only time will tell if it was good or bad
Brian
Hi Brian-RacerX This was really good and provoked much thought from me. I really like it as it contains the essence of what you & I and so many others are trying to accomplish. It might just render some good results from W. She seems to have her thinking cap on. Peace be with you my brother.
