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Can you tell us your transparency plan with your W? Does she show you email, phone bills, etc.?

Yes. She quit her job immediately (OM worked there), and got a new job.

She changed her cellphone #, and switched the new phone to detailed billing, which comes to me.

She leaves her cellphone out for me to look at anytime I want to see it.

I am allowed to GPS her car if I feel the need to do so (I never have).

She shares her daily schedule with me.

Hope that answers,

Puppy/Choc.

Thanks!

We no longer live anywhere near OW, she doesn't have his phone number anymore....we are now dealing with her emailing him about things that are clearly just an excuse for contact. He has been very open about it with me but she seems to be relentless. Not sure what to do about that other than ignore her as he has already asked her not to contact him.

He could change his email.

There are ways to block emails as well.

OH, I should have added that I put a keylogger on the computer, and she knows it's there.

I have thought about that, that may have to be the next step.

I need to look into this. I would rather her just be blocked than him have to change his email. Thanks for the ideas!


I so wish I would have done this when my suspicions started!

Puppy, sorry to hijack, but would you come visit my thread when you have time???? I need your advice!!!! Karen

Puppy/choc

I'm glad you're a success and I'm glad you're here!


Others....

You may not be able to do this in the manner that puppy did....it isn't for the faint of heart. It fits into the AFTER THE LAST RESORT technique in DR. So onesizefitsall advice doesn't work. But...there IS a place for his method.


peace and all good,
sg