Ok so S was suppose to meet up w/ ex for dinner last night, hasnt seen him since hes been back home. Ex canceled , made it for tonight, S just told me Ex canceled AGAIN. No surprise.
Then S says well we are going to hook up Sunday, a weekend??? what?? but ex dosnt do weekends w/ S thats for his party crowd!
I told S, wellll dont forget we have planned a barbque w/ B and grandma/grandad for fathers day, you are barbqueing. He said he knew and it was more lunch.
Honestly my ex!! So he decides he'll see S on fathers day, all of a sudden after 6 yrs he remembers hes a father?? Where was he the last 6 fathers days?? or Superbowl Sundays?? or Christmas or S birthday??
S always goes tho, so no cats in the cradle for my ex yet.
He is his father, and he even has a gift for him, but honestly apart from the college tuition, my dad and B have been more of a support to S then his dad has!
He never seizes to amaze me that man
Last edited by KarenMarieS; 06/11/0811:38 PM.
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
Yes and your friend is probably thinking, "what are they talking about?" She's probably feeling just like we did K, and thinking that her life is over. I feel for her. I'd never want to go back and do it all again. Those days sucked! What she really needs is for someone who will listen while she gets it all out, but then again your friends who have never been through it can't know this.
What she can't yet realize is that she's already lucky to have you for a friend because you get it. Plus through you she'll see that sometimes these stories do have happy endings!
ok so now you say wifey , the person I thought you were, you are not! so when i emailed the person I thought you were, they are now thinking im crackers! LOL
Yes and sadly I hear of things like this weekly! Sadly a dear friend of mine came to me last week and admitted she was thinking of becoming the WA, well not totally but she was attracted to someone else. Weird sit, her H has med probs and shes basicaly a nursemate to him. Its hard too when you care and love someone but dont think they are making the right decisions!
Thanks for the visit NMD, now I know you are not who I thought, I need to start guessing again! lol
KarenMarieS,
You do know me...... I'll keep you guessing....
I wish these people would just stick to their M....... In the end, it is their choice....
Yes, Wifey is truly a BMW will ALL of the equipment...... I love driving her......
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
Welllll I thought I did---- Lets play ,Whats My Line
NMD, do you live UP NORTH, wayyy up north??
No....
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
Don't you wonder what Ry thinks AND feels when K does this to him? I bet you'd be surprised. I also wonder why it is that K does this? His son always is willing to meet with him, which is more than a lot of kids would do, yet he constantly cancels on him. Do you think he chickens out and has to talk himself up for the meetings? Personally, he sounds more confused and depressed to me then he did in the beginning.
Ya know B, one thing is i do remember this time of the month, the first week ( although we are past that!) was always busy for K, something about acct. stuff, but then WHY make plans in the first place?? say, this week wont work son!
Ry said he called and said he wont be out of work till 5:00 or later then an hour drive,,,,sooooo,,for Ry thats no biggie, he is 23 thats bascially mid morning for him! So I dont buy that at all! I am sure something more "fun" came up.
Ry makes some excuses for him but then ends it by saying, thats my dad! I think K is damn lucky that his S keeps hangin on. If he only knew!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
I'll keep you guessing....