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With all the MLC garb....ulcers are probably pretty popular around here.....careful what you eat...eat bland foods...
take care of yourself....

Treese

Treese

Thanks. That is what the doctor said too. He will put me in a twilight sleep and he said most people just fall asleep. I just want to get it resolved.

I had the hysterectomy too in the 90's and I was glad I did. I felt so much better afterward.

You will make it through. I will be watching on top of the world! LOL

BTW, Happy 16th to your D!!!! Your right, your H is missing out!

Y

Treese

I don't eat anything greasy or with fat. I can't afford to loose any more weight. Now if I just can stop throwing up!

Y

YEs, the surgery was the best thing that's ever happened to me...I'm 43 years old and no more periods...woohoo!!!!!!!

D15's friends are coming her at 2:11 am (the time she was born) to wake her and bring her to their house for her Birthday...they've been great for her and they've stood by her through all this....she is blessed and so am I for her....

Treese

I"m sorry you are throwing up.....that stinks....make them give you something for that...You'll dehydrate.....can't have that...
Treese

Treese

Sugar free popsicles have become my friend. At least I can get fluids. I don't throw up all the time, just the majority.

Y

Wow, I am sorry I missed your health problems. I hope you find the problem and the solution soon. I have been away from the boards for a while. Guess what, I got through S18's senior year, 2 proms, senior pictures, and an open house...all without any financial or physical help from H (other than mandatory child support which is now over). H is still very angry after all this time and I am still standing while moving forward with my life. We didn't have to deal with OW as son told H she was not welcome and I emailed her that I trusted that she would respect son's wishes. (being that she was a former friend, I still remembered her email addy)

Please keep us posted as to your findings. You are in my prayers.

Hi YR, I pray that the doctors figure what's wrong and that you get better real soon.
(((YR)))
-PH

Patty and PH

Honestly, I don't think it is anything major going on with me. Hoepfully they find the problem and can fix it and I can go on with my life!

Thanks for caring, my friends!

Oh, Patty, I am so glad you made it through. I know it was a struggle but you did it! Way to go!

Y

YR,

I'm so sorry you are having these health problems!! I will be praying for you & hope that it is nothing serious!! You have been thru a lot also & I'm sure it's more stress than anything.

I am sad that my H got a bad deal in the D but you are right, under the circumstances he deserved it. I hope one day he will see that. He thinks this was all my ideal but it wasn't. My ideal was to get the house & my lawyer went after everything else but my H thinks it was all me! My L said if I wanted to go along with my H's offer I could but I could also get another L, so what else could I do?? The mediator told me I needed to listen to my L, that he was a good one. The mediator also told me he could tell that I was a good person & a good wife & didn't deserve what my H had done to me. I guess that was bad in a way, especially for H b/c it seemed like the mediator was on my side & I think my H's L was on my side too. But he did it to himself. It just makes me sad that I'm getting blamed for everything.

I sure hope he will see that one day & I hope you are right & he can't stop thinking good thoughts about me.

Good luck with your tests & please let us know as soon as you can. We are still here for you also!!!

(((HUGS)))