H was away most of the weekend doing field work/research but did arrive home yesterday around noon and we all had a nice day together. H called several times while he was away. On Sat. I purposely had my cell off and didn't pick up until much later in the day because I was feeling down. When he arrived home yesterday he was very warm and caring. He and S decided what they wanted to do. We ended up going mini golfing, then out for an icecream and walk by the lake. When we were in the car, I noticed H had on his wedding band (first time since S in Jan). I didn't mention it at all but it put me in a really good mood. We had a very good afternoon together. When we got home I prepared a nice dinner and margaritas which H thought were very delicious. He was very appreciative of the day, dinner and the drinks. He told me he's going to have to prove himself to S and to me. I had been feeling really down the rest of the weekend because I had no idea who he was with but yesterday was a good day.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
I would have been crying of joy if my H had shown up with his ring on. What a gesture!! Tells you that is he (re)committed and wants everybody to know that. addie I am very very happy for you!! K
I'll try to catch up soon, but it seems like you're doing great.
((((((hugs)))))))
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
