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nlt

You can bet that he hasn't forgotten all the good times.They might be a bit cloudy right now but they will come back!

Y

Treese

The doctor can't figure out what is wrong with my stomach. He thought gall stone but that isn't it. Now next week I have to get a scope down my throat. UGH!!!! I just want them to find out what is going on so I can get better.

My H used to say that I could have the house and everything else but his Mustang. He didn't want anything. That is guilt talking big time!

BTW, he doesn't have all that he wants. That's the problem. He doesn't know what he wants. It might be the OW right now but that won't last!

Y

nlt

<y H used to say that he didn't want me to hate him and wanted to be friends too. What a crock!!!

It's too bad that your H got such a back deal but I think he got what he deserved under the circumstances. Don't worry about it!

Y

Treese and nlt:

H has told me several times recently that the affair--in the beginning you think it is exciting but then he said he came to the realization that it is not what it is cracked up to be.

He said it is an illusion and that is it.

TL

Thank you! I will check out your thread. I hope things work out!

Y

Hi YR,
Thanks for checking out my thread. I had that done some years ago, and I was worried about it. But it turned out to be OK and I had no pain at all. You will be OK as well.

TL

Thanks for the reassurance. I needed that with all of the tests I have had.

Y

YR,
I never had anything wrong with me. It was always the nerves which produced too much stomach assid. It could be the same with you, after everything you went through. This MLC rubbish is not good for our health. Good luck.

Thanks for your kind words on my thread.

TL

The doctor sent me to get some medicine. The is leaning toward an ulcer now. Who knows!

Y

YR;

Yep....I too had to have the scope down the throat but you don't remember anything at all...really....I had acid reflux and I am now on meds and have be for about 7 years....oh, had the gall stone too....took out the gallbladder...I'm a little hollow...remember I just had the hysterectomy (?).....and now I get to go through this crap....Boy...if I get through this I will be on top of the world....

I will pray for good results.....

SF...I've been praying the Hedge of Thorns......

tomorrow is D15 16th Birthday...I am taking her out to eat and to buy her something special....she's an angel....H is surely missing out on this milestone...you can't get these days back....sad!!!