It's not just you, Kat. There's something in the air this week or something. Maybe it's the moon.
"The Hunger" Steve Holy
She hates bein' on her own, but she does her best Empty nights create the hunger for love and tenderness She spends so much time alone She says it makes her wonder If she'll ever find someone who'll make her feel alive And satisfy the hunger
He always reads a lot at night, but he's gettin' tired of it An empty house deepens desire for true companionship When he sees himself in the mirror, he don't look no younger He just keeps on fightin' the fear that'll he'll go through life And not satisfy the hunger
Oh the hunger, the need for lovin' arms Oh the hunger, longing for contentment of the heart
She picks up a second job at an all night diner Anything that she can do to fill the empty hours Then by chance her destiny he's there across the counter Their lives are changed by what they see in each other's eyes They recognize the hunger
Oh the hunger, the need for lovin' arms Oh the hunger, longing for contentment of the heart
Sad thing is here, as much as I busted up my wife's affair, and we have a wonderful new friendship... and she even makes great efforts in just about every love language except the one that's most important to me ... I'm right back in the same sex-starved marriage that brought me to these boards in the first place.
lol - I think my thread has turned into the Sex-Starved Separation Forum all on its own. Of course, that has nothing to do with my present state of mind!
Sad thing is here, as much as I busted up my wife's affair, and we have a wonderful new friendship... and she even makes great efforts in just about every love language except the one that's most important to me ... I'm right back in the same sex-starved marriage that brought me to these boards in the first place.
I can't believe I have turned into such a flirt this last week. But it does feel good to be validated as a person that can bring the playfulness out in someone else.
My H and I had our issues in that department. He made me feel like a stalked animal, he didn't want to get close in my way. It used to not be like that but I think carrying a lot of the work load of the marriage and his first affair just made me need that little extra romance and he never seemed to want to go there for me. Was it always all about him??
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Of course, that has nothing to do with my present state of mind!