Sorry moderator...I know it sounds like I am advocating or suggesting divorce in that post, but I am not. I apologize to NTE, too. If you read all of my posts, you will see a theme where I do NOT want divorce for people...but I sometimes word things in such a way to make people think about it more directly so that they can see that not dealing with things NOW may cause divorce later, even if they dont want one NOW.
Anyway, its not my intention to advocate divorce. I want and hope for NTE to be in love with his wife again!