Woog, your name is going back on my fridge. I miss it!
Thinking of you today. Interesting your wife is telling you her changes had nothing to do with Nick. You were saying you couldn't figure out which buttons he pushed with her that you didn't. There is your answer. She just added new buttons in the past few months, and never gave you a chance to push them....hope that made sense...
Sorry your answer is "nope". I know you deserve better, but the hopeless romantic in me was wishing you would reconcile, that we all would....
Also, re. your heart getting hard, I have a book I have read a couple times here called "Love Must be Tough".
It says one of the BIGGEST challenges an LBS will face is that, once they develop the strength to move on with their lives, stand on their own two, feet, and make their own way, that is usually when the WAW wants to come back. And quite often, by then the LBS has become SO strong that they HAVE "hardened their hearts" and there is no turning back. It actually warns that it could happen to us, and maybe it is starting to happen to you. As Kalni always says, time will tell....
We have discovered ways in Greece that "loving feeling" comes back in about 1-2 days of treatment... In severe cases additional time may be required inluding some intensive one-one therapies known to cure any kind of "heart" bruises or injuries. Guaranteed results.
known to cure any kind of "heart" bruises or injuries.