no one but me to blame and no one but me to pick up the pieces, which was not my plan but it is now:)
This is called self-blame and victimization. I recommend that you find a way to stop this on your road to getting back the real you. I recommend the following books: -Hold onto Your N.U.T.S. by Levine -Venus and Mars: Starting Over by Gray -A New Earth -For Men Only
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Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
So wife is down at mums for the holiday took 2 cats with her and will move out after she gets back to her new apartment which is short term leased, all info was told to me not stolen by the way:)
I have been looking at mortgages and such for now and trying not to talk to lawyers but I think I may have to lets see