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I'M MEETING HIM TONIGHT AFTER 7
CORNER OF 34th ST AND NINTH AVENUE...????!!!!!!!!

my outfit:
royal blue knit empire waist dress, v neck, little sleeves, extreeeeemely sexy without looking like I'm trying
some kind of necklace he hasn't seen
new haircut w/ side part & new sparkly red rhinestone barette
probs just my new sandals, high heels might make me too nervous

this is sooooooooo crazy!!

fun, happy, lovely
fun, happy, lovely
fun, happy, lovely
fun, happy, lovely

(((((((LISA))))))
love,
T

Just came back!!!

GOOD LUCK REBECCA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll be thinking about you, have fun!
K

I LOVE the outfit!

YAY THANK YOU SO MUCH KALNI!!!!

oh, one more thing, just for my own PMA I will be wearing one of my awesome new 32d bras, and some cute underwear!!

OK, just to review, I shouldn't initiate any touching but if he does I can follow his lead (like a hug or something). right?

Should I try to make the first move to end the "date"?
Also, if he brings up R stuff, should I just gently change the subject, or listen and validate, or just feel it out in the moment?

(((((EVERYONE)))))
Love,
T

oh one more thing, apparently we are having dinner together, so ... WHA?????????????????????? how did this happen????????

deep breath, deep breath.....

(((((T)))))

I agree, I would not initiate touching, but if he looks like he is thinking of a hug, you might be able to make it easier for him?

As far as ending the date, play it by ear. Though, I thin it would be better to end too soon than to drag it out. You have a train to catch?

If he brings up R stuff, I would start with listen and validate. If you don't like the direction it is going, a gentle subject change would be a good idea.

One more thing.... NO EXPECTATIONS!

OH MY GOD !!!
Where have I been !?? I'm so sorry I lost your thread and found you again, this is too exciting! This is better than the first ever episode of Dallas ! (I hope you used to watch that, I think you may be too young) Ok, I'm so excited, I'm waffling. This is huge...we will all be on the edge of our seats waiting to hear how it went. I'm dying to know how you FEEL about him now, after not seeing him for 6 (?) months. Does he look the same? Do you still fancy him? Did your stomach turn over and do somersaults when he showed up !???

I also love your outfit, sounds amazing and I am imagining that your hair is naturally dark, black even, so I bet you look really striking and he will be wowed by the new Rebecca.

So happy for you!!! I hope you manage to get another date 'in the bag' before you come home tonight,

Ali xxxxx

(((JEFF))))
(((((ALI)))))
you are so amazing!!!

I will aim to get another date in the bag

I'm going to brush my teeth, put on my shoes, and be on my merry little way. I am going to aim for good vibes, and choose to enjoy.

LOVE
T

GOOD LUCK~GOOD LUCK~GOOD LUCK~GOOD LUCK!!

Thinking of you T! I bet you're going to knock his socks off!!

L. xx

I cant wait to go to bed and go to sleep so that I can wake up and read what happened. I want you to post every teeny tiny teensy detail. 6 months worth! Hoping it goes (went) well...
Ali xxx

((T)) I cant believe I missed this either! Am hoping that it went really well! Post soon and let us know! WE LOVE YOU!