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doh! I actually have one of those quad massagers. I have no idea where it is though....I know where my other massagers are...but they don't work very well on the shoulders! Lol.


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I'm so with you Michelle!! My FIL's girlfriend has the same name as the EA/OW. I have a tough time even addressing her by name. I wish the OW had some off the wall name that no one else would have. \:\)

Hey there's a great store (on Howe I think? Or Watt maybe?) called "Relax the Back" that might be worth visiting. Lots of various options for DIY back massages. If nothing else you can pretend you might buy a massage chair and they'll let you sit in it for awhile. \:\) They also have this thing called a Thera Cane that is amazing for getting out muscle knots.

Yeah I know, a massage from your H would be much better. \:\) But it still might be worth a visit.


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It's on Howe. I know exactly what you mean! Oooh, sitting in those chairs sounds great........


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Did he actually say whats her name?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Yes. I put it in quotes because he actually said "whats her name" lol. It was kinda strange.


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Actually, its kind of a good sign...at least from my perspective. It sounds like he is detaching from her!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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And/or he's scared to mention her to me....which is not a positive. lol.

But he's definitely less wrapped up in her. Or he wouldn't be spending a Saturday night with me! So, that's a positive even if I didn't even get a single kiss.


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Hey you got a date. Think she knows about that???


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Originally Posted By: LolaL
Hey you got a date. Think she knows about that???


I seriously doubt it. \:\/

He's still very lost in the fog.

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Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
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Hahaha. I'm gonna have to go with a resounding "no". Considering how she flipped out at her ex-BF from before about him cheating on her...I don't think she would take kindly to it at all.

Which is actually my motivation to get him to open up to me about what's going on. I want him to be keeping secrets from her...not me.


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