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Hey gForce! Don't feel too jealous. A lot of people consider the city where I live to be the armpit of California. HOWEVER, it's only an hour's drive from Yosemite, so neener-neener. =)

I'll definitely take you up on the trip to Acadia National Park. All is right with the world when I'm in nature.

I'll be wishing you the best of luck with your recent turn of events, gman.

Like Mike said, "don't f it up!" ;-)


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I've started to develop feelings for another man. I think these feelings have developed into LOVE. I'm not kidding. And, I think he feels the same. He lives on my street and visits with me every evening before my husband gets home from work. This morning I was having my coffee on the porch and he joined me. He's not much to look at, but he's super sweet. He's in pretty rough shape - a diabetic, skin and bones and up there in years. Bless his heart. I think he's lonely and wants some lovin' during his senior years. Who could blame him?

I really need to stop my feelings from growing. I cannot get too attached to this old guy. What am I to do????


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Hi Girl - I just checked a map of California and anatomically-wise, Lake Tahoe appears to be where one would call an armpit. However, I suspect you live near Bakersfield where the air is as clean and pure as Paris Hilton.

BTW... a few years ago on the way to Disney Land, my family spent a night in Bakersfield and it seemed ok.

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Attraction for senior citizen men is a specialty of my W's!

I dont know what to tell you concerning your falling in love with another man while you are hoping to fix your M. You do know that if it continues, the chances decrease drastically in DBing to reconcile your M.

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Hi KK,

Close. I went to high school in Bakersfield, but moved up north about a hundred miles for college and stayed. I don't think either place is too terrible. BUT, I'd take Tahoe any day. So beautiful...

Oh, did I forget to mention, the man I've fallen far happens to be a kitty cat? Oopsie! What kind of girl do you think I am????


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You got me!!!!

Happy Birthday again...

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Very good!

I sleep with a lady who is not my W every night! She comes to bed right after I do, without fail. She looks into my eyes, and....









meows.

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Yay! I gotcha Kalni! And, Jeff... you poor thing. Maybe we should change your name from dry_heat to dry_spell.

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You really got me girl!

Yesterday, when W stopped by, I had my Donny cat (his sister is Marie) laying on my chest and the kids were petting it. W hates cats (or any animals for that matter) and jested about wanting to pass her "pink eye" to the cat. I told her that S7 had a bad dream and climbed in bed with me in the middle of the night last Saturday. And in the morning, Donny cat crawled under the covers with us. W just shuttered and said that she does not want to know about such things.

On that trip to Disneyland, we stopped and ate dinner at a Denny's in Fresno. Them Bulldogs have been a pretty good college football team over the last few years.

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Girl - You locked BobbiJo's thread before I could respond. Where did you hide the key?

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