that sounds really frustrating. At least however he didn't do something even stupider like ask you to stay and then ask you to leave, or ask you to stay and then act really confused. I know you have EVERY REASON to be frustrated and mad and SHOW it but it might help your Sitch more if you play it cool when this stuff happens and don't show it... if he doesn't feel pressure to have sleepovers he will probably be more interested in spending time with you.
Congratulations, still!!! You basically just went on a date with H!!!!!
I feel the frustration you have. I'm sorry he's pulling all this crap on you. He is definitely one confused individual, but then again, aren't they all?
Have a fun time running erands. Drop by my thread if you have a chance. Nothing much going on over there but it's a little lonely.
Talk soon!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
(((Michelle)))...we should have gone to the damn wedding afterall, huh?
Your H is a very confused individual (I know, not news) but I was just thinkin' about you and wanted to see how things were. Keep up the little contact thing. I think he does get worried when you back away, I know mine does.
((M))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Although the pizza was good, and Ironman totally rocked!
Still don't know what to make of his words/actions, but trying to make sense of his illogic will only give me more of a headache. So, I'm going to relax instead lol.
Beer anyone???
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
My H poured out my last beer when he was here earlier...WTF? I don't go and cut the cards in 1/2 at the cardroom do I?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
So you never even got to find out why he was mad at you !!?? He didnt say, you didnt ask? Gosh, that is maddening. Your H is really contrary ! Its a good thing that he IMd you and asked you for dinner and he wanted to watch a movie and then another movie, its like he wants to hang out with you, but he cant bring himself to go there, so watching movies back to back is a safe thing to do as you cant talk and its kind of avoidance.... My first "date" with my BF was to see a movie. Par for the course!
Just keep plugging away. Whats your plan now then, now you have picked up the cheque? (I guess you dont have any "excuses" to meet up now, so it would only be if he wanted to, is that right?)
Sorry you had a disappointing evening and he was in his cave! Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
So he didn't even bring up why he was "pissed at you"??
I know you are really frustrated right now. He just really has no clue what he wants, I don't understand why they don't get tired of living in that limbo land.
One positive....you got the check! At least that worry is over for now.
