I think he's worried again that I might move on. He seems to get nervous when I don't talk to him lol.
That's great! NC worked again.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
I disagree with everyone else about the self-levitating shirts. If he's wondering "if there's anything between us", blowing his mind might be a good idea. Just IMO...
The reason I say that is because I think it has been tried enough....and it isn't doing any good...not necessarily any bad...but not really any good. Last time this opportunity presented itself their was talk of your H kissing a bartender or something the next day. He is arrogant right now and he needs to know that he can't just have Michelle, OW, and anyone else for that matter whenever he wants it.
I just think that may be allowing him to cake eat. Maybe blow his mind by turning him down....he may not see that one coming!
Yeah, if it is about me sharing that article with her, it's gonna be a VERY ironic conversation.
There is little doubt in my mind he did break up with her, but he hasn't told me they got back together.....
Originally Posted By: klm
I thought that too. I remember my H being very arrogant and almost stuck up at one point during this. I am still not sure what that was about.
Interesting that it seems to be a "normal" phase. At least with our H's, who almost seem twins some days lol.
Originally Posted By: GoingForward
Originally Posted By: klm
Either way I think it is because you put a little kink in his fantasy world.
Exactly. He's upset because you caused them some drama. Boo freakin' hoo.
LMAO.
Originally Posted By: jon2911
I disagree with everyone else about the self-levitating shirts. If he's wondering "if there's anything between us", blowing his mind might be a good idea. Just IMO...
Yeah, I was trying that before though, and his good thoughts/feelings/calls/IMs would last about 2-3 days, then he'd start saying it was a mistake or avoid me. Obviously it was confusing him, but I'm inclined to make him work a little harder this time around. We'll see.
I'm playing the whole thing by ear, just gonna have to see what he says/does I guess.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I disagree with everyone else about the self-levitating shirts. If he's wondering "if there's anything between us", blowing his mind might be a good idea. Just IMO...
The reason I say that is because I think it has been tried enough....and it isn't doing any good...not necessarily any bad...but not really any good. Last time this opportunity presented itself their was talk of your H kissing a bartender or something the next day. He is arrogant right now and he needs to know that he can't just have Michelle, OW, and anyone else for that matter whenever he wants it.
I just think that may be allowing him to cake eat. Maybe blow his mind by turning him down....he may not see that one coming!
I SECOND THAT.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
