I just think it's funny that more and more of the "reasons" for his wanting to reconcile are coming out...and he hasn't changed - at all. He still doesn't accept blame - he puts it full on her and I for the demise of our marriage. Boo!
Have a great weekend ya'll! I'm off to work, then to pay my tags - BOO - but later - off to see Carrie & the girls!!!
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
something comes up and brings it all back to the surface.
X is trying to get a loan. He called yesterday to ask about a cc he was an authorized user on. The account has since been closed and I'm trying to pay it off. If ya'll remember last summer he forgot he was a dad for about 6 months or so and I was putting everything on that card.
FF to today and he needs his name off the account. Newsflash - it was removed over a year ago - about the time he moved out. So today he gets Peanut and asks me if I'd sign something stating he's off the account.
I didn't say a whole lot until he left and I texted to say I don't need to hear about my credit from him, since a great deal of that balance is his doing. He 'never wished bad on me, yada yada blah blah"
So I said well ya know - if you would have been doing what you were supposed to last year instead of doing her - it wouldn't be like this.
OOPS - I went there.
Is it bad that I feel better?
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
And who would expect anything less young lady. I don't believe that was too harsh. He did cause this debt, I do remember you struggling because his selfish asss wouldn't pay his support and help with the bills.
Not for nothing, but I wouldnt sign jack squat for him. Any lender can easily get a statement or he can call the credit company himself.
