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Jeff,

It's ENTIRELY up to you. Personally, i like:

"I hope you know that this is not what I wanted.
I hope that my actions have shown you my love,
and if you ever decide to end your affair,
I CAN FORGIVE YOU.

I just pray that happens before what's left of
my love for you runs out.

- Jeff"

I think that you telling her that you are faithful, she may take this as rubbing her nose in what she is doing to you.

In some of our "discussions", I have said things like I am the one that can be trusted or faithful, and it has back fired. Like telling her how perfect I am. That is how she takes it a least.

Edit.

"I think that you telling her that you are faithful, she may take this as rubbing her nose in what she is doing to you."

And I don't think that this is a possible reaction you are looking for.

So you don't have a problem with me setting out a card for her to find when she walks into the house Friday night (her last night there)

Mary, I hope you know that this is
not what I wanted. I hope that my
actions have shown you how much
I love you. If you ever decide to
end your affair, I will be here
to forgive you. I just pray that
happens before what's left of
my love for you runs out.

You know this is tearing me
up inside, I cannot make you
stop what you are doing. I can
only pray that you will.

You remain in my prayers. For
our last night together under
this roof as a family come up
to bed and let me hold you one
more time before you leave.

Your Husband Jeff

We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.

M45
W41
M10 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
PA confirmed 03/08 no sex yet ?? let me hope !!!
Moving Van coming Saturday May 31st

I think at this point, what the hell. Why not. You have laid everything on the line already. Worst case, the last thing she'll remember would be those words.

Letter to God,

God, please help us, please help all of us
We have tried and some of us continue to try
We keep the faith in you, that there is some
plan you have for us. There must be a God
because of love. I feel the pain, the hurt
of love, I have felt the happiness and
joy of love. What man has done for the
love of a woman. What love produces, what
love endures. Love cannot be seen, and there
is no exact definition of love. Love
cannot be measured or captured. People
write verse and song about love. Love
cannot be held or bought or sold. You cannot
catch, trap or surround love. Love has no
size shape or form. Is God Love ? If
God is love, why God do we suffer so.
What have we done not to be loved. What
is your plan for us, we need to know
We try to understand, but are confused.
We wait and wonder what is next. Will
love come back into our lives.

Respectfully Submitted Your Servant

Jeff from St Louis

Beautiful. Amen.

gForce, wow, I see your D is happening Monday, is that right??? How are you?

Sorry for the hijack Jeff. Amazing what you posted, by the way.

Yup, Monday. I'm feeling pretty crappy. Don't want to continue the hijack. Visit my angst on my thread.

Will do. Thinking of you.