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I also think you are in this sort of 'holding' phase between now and Retro and it's going to be a tough one.

Just keep calm and steady.


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(((H)))

Good to hear from you. I finally got caught up.

I really think Sara might be on to something about the Wellbutrin. There are a ton of ADs out there and not all of them work for all people. My Dad's been on a ton of different ones and he just doesn't respond as expected - he even got suicidal on Prozac. You're also probably still withdrawing some from the nicotine and I'm sure that's messing with your brain chemistry.

Calm and steady is right, Saffie.


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Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
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Husband,
I agree with everyone else. Don't do anything right now that could throw your life for a loop more than it already is. Talk to your doctor and tell him the side effects you are having.

You have worked so hard not to care now. Hang in there my friend.

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Well after a not so great weekend. Today was pretty good. I got to work at 3:30am and it was a little slow but things went along pretty well. There was a "beer bust" (party at work) at 2:30 but I got off at 12:30. I was going to stay and work overtime but at 12:00 my leg really started hurting me. Every once in a while I get these sharp pains in my leg (what is left of it) like someone is shocking me. They happen every few minutes. So I waited and then got busy with other stuff all of a sudden it was 2:30. So I went to the party and got a hot dog and a beer and sat down by myself in the corner. I was there for about 2 minutes when 3 ladies. (My age) came walking up to me and asked if they could sit down. Now I know they all are married but it was sure an ego boost to have all of these seats available and they wanted to sit my me... I think it is something in my Jeans.... I mean genes... No smokes today. It was strange because sitting there I looked around and this one guy was over in the smoking area by himself. And I thought... See if I was smoking that would be me. But instead I am here with these three beautiful women...

Ok the air scoop and locking gas cap came today for my jeep. I need to go put them on...

Later

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Now I know they all are married but it was sure an ego boost to have all of these seats available and they wanted to sit my me... I think it is something in my Jeans.... I mean genes...


You are so naughty!

I'm glad you had a good day other than the pain in your leg, sorry about that. Good job on the smoking!

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Hey CW68,

I have not heard anything from retro yet... When I called them this 'old" sounding guy with an attitude problem asked me if I sent in the check yet. I told him I did not want to send in the check until I knew I was registered. He said I could not register until I sent in the check.
I mean this is a big step and I though I would get a little more compassion from this guy but he acted like I was keeping him form watching dancing with the stars of something.
Have you received anything in the mail yet?? I am beginning to think I may have been had...

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Is Dancing with the Stars on?!

That doesn't surprise me. You do need to send the check to be registered. The local people who run it are all volunteers. I'm sure 15 years ago when he started doing this volunteer job he was more compassionate than he is today. Unfortunately people get tired of doing that kind of a job. Don't take it personally. Send the check. The lead couples will be warm and compassionate. He's just the ticket taker.

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Sara,
I already sent the check in a few weeks ago. I even e-mailed agian to ask some questions with no response. I may go ahead and register agian.
I am making the reservations right now for my annual father & son week long sand dune driving ,castle building, smores making, burping and farting week..in Eureka Ca.

6/15 thru 6/21 With internet access....

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I hope you don't get the two weekends mixed up. I doubt you will impress your wife with burping and farting at Retro. Oh, I thought you said that you didn't send the check. Did the check clear your bank account? The guy should answer the question of whether or not he got your form and your check. Sorry he's so difficult.

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does anyone know if the other board is down?

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