Divorcebusting.com Forums Divorcebusting.com Archives Surviving the Big D Archives Dealing with Residue

WOW!!! You've gotten some great words of wisdom and support here.

I met X's GF a couple of yrs ago. It was hard, in spite of the fact that she was not OW. Hard, because she's about 20 yrs younger than X, great looking, very nice, etc. And.....my D23 actually likes her!!! YUCK!!! However, I also know that she has 3 young kids, struggles financially, is not too bright and is very controlling of X. What we see is not always what it seems. I wouldn't trade my life for X's EVER!!!!

Ya did good, Karen, and like SE said "you're the bomb!!!"

Nice perspective karen!!!

Have fun at those bbqs!! I am here at school...packing

ick

but

my meditation for today said
not to worry about change
not to feel like a failure

new experiences are opportunities to learn

guess someone is beating me over the head with it!!!

have a great memorial day!!!

Saw your recent post so... how was your weekend???

C2!
I owe you an email! I have it saved! lol I like to take time w/ special people,--- if Jill and Bethie write I just jot something and send if off as it dosnt much matter

Weekend was nice, quiet, after last weekend!
the weather stunk as you know! lol so instead of the barbque, we went to lunch w/ my 2 gf and their hubbies, that was a first and nice, although the poor guys cant get a word in edgewise.

Barbqued yesterday- just the 3 of us.
Ry h as been tackling his room all weekend, it was a mess! Christmas gifts ztill sitting there, but he has really done a grat job purging and reorganizing, B went out w/ me and bought im a new chest of drawers and table, which I thought was soooo thoughtful of him. I think Ry thinks hes really a great guy, if he had any doubts.

How was your weekend C2?? Are you coming down to earth after being in Paradise??
Wanna go back??

not to worry about change
not to feel like a failure


this is great fig! I love it.
You have been thru change before and come out shining and you will agian! You are just that kind of person-- I admire you for all you do w/ your boys, its not always easy!

Do you have any leads on a new teaching job?
Did you have a nice long weekend?

Yup! exactly, I read about the LB who have to deal w/ their ex and child issues and feel so bad for them, as if the bomb isnt bad enough, although I always like to see the WA involved w/ their children at least, those who dont are real pieces of work.


Thanks SG, I think in the back of my mind, I was thinking what would my DB friends do? lol Knowing sometimes what you want to do and what you need to do are different things all together

Said an extra prayer for you SG, wishing you well and that everything comes out good for you!

Hey Jillybean
Great advice uh?? I love it! I always tell people, I dont know what I would do without you all at times, those who have been thru exact sits as I am and will be going thru.

Glad you are back, I know it was hard for you- your a wonderful D and I know your dad and mom appreciate and must just love you soooo much!

Well!!!! FYI, I always ponder at great length before sending you an email or posting on your thread. Your blase' attitude towards Beth and I is pretty upsetting, right, Beth??? And...after all we've done for you!!! HMMMMMPH!!!!

karen
I just found out I didn't even make it to the interview portion at one job (2 positions)

but

I am still plugging away

ugh

maybe I should go back to corporate

blech

Ahhh I'm sorry Jilly bean, I didnt mean it,,well I meant it about Bethi but I didnt mean YOU, no I meant,,,ummm SE yea yea thats it, I meant SE, with you I sit and contempmlate and want to get everything "just so"

Forgive me Jill, pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee I am foggy w/ lack of food from my WW flippin not enough points!!!!