I'm so happy to see you on the board this morning. Thank you so much for your support and help on my thread!!! I am sorry this is going to be really fast b/c I am still packing to get ready for this festival and I am not ready... but I am so excited you are trying something different! I wa sthinking about your situation the past couple days and wanting to post to you that it would be good to try a new tactic. I am totally with One Day. Don't forget that getting rid of the tension is MAJOR progress, even if it might just feel neutral or something right now. I wish I had more time to post but please just know that I am thinking of you and pulling for you!!! Let us know how he responds to the text!! And if there is anything we should scheme up for the ahem ahem *bathroom renovation* ...!!!
Well it went a full 24 hours with no response to my text. I didnt really feel anything though (so maybe I'm detached?!)
Thanks so much Lisa for your insight about my situation - I'm thinking it through. If you are going to ask the tough questions you will have to help me with the answers!
Anyway I was at a fundraiser dinner last night and had my phone switched off. But when I checked it late last night H had called and said that he had been in NZ this weekend just been (my text is probably perfect timing then?) and that he was calling about my text message and that I should call him back. I'm out tonight and cant call him - so I will make him wait till Wednesday night before I call. I think I'm going to wait and see if H brings up a time and place to have a catch up drink - if he doesnt I'm not going to - I've planted the seed in his mind!
Without having expectation that this is some R breakthrough I'm hoping that this is the right time for some changes to be made, and that hopefully we will be able to catch up for a drink in the next week or so.
I'm pleased with my DB journey so far and I cant thank you all enough for your support and encouragement - I dont know what I would have done without you!
