missed your post. I am not excited. He kind of has said this before. BTW, today nobody -but you guys- wished me Happy Mothers Day. I had to tell my kids in front of H. When I left I said "thanks for your or the wishes, I am the mother of (some) your children". He replied, "I didn't know, you are right, sorry".
Good news, then, that he initiated the discussion. This is a step forward at least. I'm out of my office tomorrow, but will do some searching for you on Tuesday and e-mail the info over.
Wow, that IS good news though, I know you said he has said it before...but its good news he has said it again! So its still in the balance, hes still on the fence, but as he initiated the conversation with the C, thats positive too.. he is being a little more open about the possibility of returning home (and he must KNOW that this information would be relayed to you by her??)
I wanted to say that it is wierd that he will be away end of May - June (?)...because, Mercury, planet of thinking is going Retrograde, in Gemini !!! This is huge, it is going stationary retrograde at 20 degrees of Gemini (which is direct on his Sun, at 21 degrees). So this is in one way fitting that he will be going away, going inward and going over things in his mind, to make a decision.., but also, not the best time, as things decided under mercury retrograde can often get reversed, or be clouded by miscommunication.
Mercury goes direct on 19th June, before moving forwards again and life move forwards proper by July 4th. Hard to explain, so read this link if you are interested..MERCURY R
Other than that, I am so pleased that yuor H continues to hover nearby. Interesting that you feel your interactions are uneeventful and he is distant with you..and yet he asks the C to go over the exercises! So things are not as they seem. Also you said you felt the OW was "in big time" and yet, he said there was noone else! I felt recently that as he is getting closer to deciding, he is even more fearful of giving you false hope and is wary of hurting you and so it makes him act cool. God these guys are so perverse! I can only hope that this explains why my BF has stopped the daily contact...because he's considering coming back!
Glad the news from the C wasnt bad, not bad at all ! Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
K- Belated Happy Mother's Day. Sorry for the slower recovery for your dad. But looks like better news on H. I'm wondering how come you have this kind of common C who also tells you what H said? I heard a similar quote that my W was either going to kill me or kill herself.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread
Sorry, meant to say, Mercury goes retrograde on 26th May (although he will start to feel the effects before that date as Mercury slows) and its pretty significant being in Gemini AND right on his own Sun. Its a good time to be introspective and also to go over past issues. Sorry, this is fascinating!
Such wierd timing, after all this indecision, he's going away and think and make a decision about his future, based on his past, and Mercury (planet of the mind) is retrograding for 6 weeks. Good timing I guess. Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I am so relieved to read what OD wrote about stage II. I am praying for you Dad and your family. You guys are SO strong, and he sounds like a true fighter!!
Woww!!! that is really good news from your C, I am so glad to hear that!! I think it's really good that he admitted he has problems with his family.
If he is taking steps towards healing his own wounds and dealing with his own crap, that is enormous. For your H to admit that is a big step. I am wondering... it seems like your parents are very involved in *your* life, and you in theirs. Is that normal for Greece, or is H's family, uninvolved, more normal ?
I *told* you there wasn't another woman!!!!!!
I hope you have a gorgeous day, K. Don't forget, you are One Hot and Sassy Momma!!!!
