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let me put on my pink socks first...

Hmmmm....thought i would stop by and see if you'd finally hung that clothes line for your wife yet?

So Jeff...what are your goals to winning back your wifes love and affection??

(((((((Jeanette!)))))))
I got the clothesline hung back in thread two, or something!

Hmmm, goals. Right now, I have some goals for myself. I don't have too many that involve W. Sure, I'd like a hug, but I am not expecting one, any time soon. We got through S13's appendectomy pretty well as parents, so that was good. Though we have always been able to do things like that.

For me, well, I am really going to lose weight, and get more healthy. The liver, and now diabetes thing are getting my attention. I haven't had a soda since April 9! I've started seeing a C, and started ADs last Thursday. Most of those things should help me with me energy level, and that can't be a bad thing. With a little more energy, I will get back to regularly working on the trains, and I'll be able to do a better job of keeping my room cleaned up, too.

So, W really doesn't enter into many of my goals right now. Which strikes me as the right way to operate. She is pretty self absorbed right now, trying to actively break onto that would be a bad plan, in my opinion.

What do you think?

I think it's a good plan. Work on Jeff for a while. You'll feel better, I know I did when I did.

thank you, thank you, thank you jeff and all of you for this thread and for the fun and for the laughter. i needed it so badly, it was so good to laugh still can't stop smiling

((((((firekeeper))))))

Welcome to whatever this is! Visit anytime, you are very, very, very welcome!

I had missed your thread, I just read you current one. I'm sorry you are having such a hard time. You know the answer (detach) for now (detach), but I know how hard it (detach) is!

(((((firekeeper)))))

what time is where you are? it is 2 in the morning here. i have some paperwork i need to finish by morning, so i write a little and then and i am rewarding myself by reading the forums)

how are you today?

hope your day will be good)))))))

It's "only" 11 pm here. You are up late! I'm glad you found this thread, I try to have fun, and still figure out what the heck I'm doing, at the same time!

I'm doing ok, after being stuck for so long (you could spend the night reading about it) I don't expect anything to change fast. But I've gotten to the point where things have to change. Hence seeing a C, getting ADs, actually being serious about what I eat, etc.!

What do you have to have done by morning?

what is ad?

i can tell you how i lost weight if you wonna)

ADs = anti-depressants

Heck, I'll listen to anything! I'm not hugely overweight, but losing 25 pounds would be a great idea!