H is odd today. I had asked him last night if he wanted to go to the movies tonight. I did this for a couple of reasons.
One, he seems to always leave at the same time when he does come over, that small part of me that thinks he might be living with the OW wants to shake that up.
Two, if he is not invovled with OW and really does call her only to discuss our issues because she is his "friend", the phone bill actually aligns with that (even though this is not acceptable to me). He is still not welcome home while this is going on but I want him to remember that we can have a good time together and I am not just that cold person who will not respond to his texts or tell him where I was.
So, as I mentioned earlier he has been texting all day first concerned about my imaginary visitor then about me playing catch at lunch. Since I have been responding to texts he has sent me probably 50 today. He just called to tell me his phone is dead and he left his charger at work in case I texted him and he didn't respond(thoughtful?). He is at my house but it sounded like he was outside so I asked if he was and he said yes he cut the front and side grass and swept the driveway for me.
Ok and this is really odd - no one freak - he said I thought it might be nice if you wore a skirt to the movies so I layed one out on the bed.
I am not reading anything into this (other than H may actually be insane or have a brain tumor like the guy on Grey's) but it is extremely different than the person I have been dealing with recently.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
Interesting. Go to the movies with him, have a good time. Be light, and winsome.
Wear jeans.
Let him know who's calling the agenda here.
Puppy
We are going to see Forgetting Sarah Marshall. On one of the other boards I saw this listed as a DB/GAL movie. Should be interesting. I think I will wear what I already have on, no need to change.
oh and thanks for not freaking, that was directed solely at you
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
I had a nice time tonight. The movie really was a good GAL movie. It wasn't as funny as I expected but there were some funny spots. It was condensed but all the rules were there.
H also had done 2 loads of laundry(his own and threw mine in the dryer). It was a good day.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
It was perfect to see with him, I think I could feel a couple squirms from that side of me. I did find interesting also that when he told his girlfriend she never even tried (which I have been guilty of saying) she listed all the ways she did try that didn't work, made me ponder slightly.
I am finding today a little hard again, there were no expectations last night but just spending "normal" time with my H and enjoying myself set back my clock a little bit and I am missing him today. I see what everyone means about contact with the AP setting the clock back to zero, works the same for evryone.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
