You can't drive yourself crazy about what he may/may not be doing. As hard as it is, GAL.
I am trying, I have committed to playing baseball this summer, I bought a new glove yesterday and the games start 2 nights a week May 21. This will be a big deal for me to get out and do this. I used to love baseball when I was younger(played from 4 till 16) and throwing the ball around yesterday with D at the park(fetching kind of like a dog :-) but she liked it) was the best I have felt in awhile and I started to get excited to play. It was even nicer throwing the ball with H but I digress because that is about us and not me. You know what it was nice for him too, he smiled and laughed and he doesn't do that anymore in my presence.
God, I am SO turned out right now, LOL
Sorry, Neece . . . just thought you could use some fun. And yeah, guys LOVE it when chicks are into sports.
Good for YOU NEECY!!!! That sounds like so much fun! I'm happy for you, this is definately a step in the right direction.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Good for you neecy. Have a ball! I may be in the Galleria area on Friday evening. H is supposed to take the kids to a movie. If I am invited, I think I'm going to have a prior engagement (even if it's sitting in BORDERS reading by myself, or maybe whacking the little white ball around at the golf dome.) Think detachment!! If you have an opportunity to go out and GAL, give me a holler and we can set something up.
Me 41 H 42 T 21 yrs M 16 yrs S15, S11 Bomb 1: Not happy 09/06 Bomb 2: Not in Love 02/08 Bomb 3: Admits to EA, poss PA? with OOW 03/24/08 Moved out 04/11/08 (our 16th wedding anniversary) Go Bills! Go Sabres!
Ok these are things I know. GAL is about me. H is likely a cake eater.
No lectures, just appreciate the beauty of his inner turmoil. It is hard not to have a little giggle over him getting all tied up in knots.
H watches D today. For some unknown reason she told him mommy had a friend over. Which I didn't, unless he was just fishing he was very concerned.
But the funny part is when he came this morning I needed gas so I left right away, then remembered that I left my ball at home and swung back around to get it because I was going to play catch today at lunch with the guy from my work that signed me up for the team. H seems very concerned about this. Texted me a number of times earlier in the morning with inuendo about lunch hour, then finally as it got closer offered a quickie if I wanted to come home at lunch instead of playing catch....told him I needed to practice maybe some other time. He kept on it until it was lunch time back and forth. How is he going to like it when the team actually takes the field?
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
Hmmmm...tough choice quickie or playing catch, you made the right call. Good for you, that was DB'ing at its finest. You are getting pretty good at this. What with Puppy being turned out/on, you are the QUEEN!!!
Keep up the good work and have a blast playing ball.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
