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(((W2G))),

Now that's... AWESOME!

I'm glad you're out of your blue mood.

Will catch up with you later, after I finish all the reading (it feels like I've been away for a month!)

Good luck tonight, ((hugs))

Sounds like a positive productive R talk. No regrets on having it! Good luck singing!

Hey W2G!
I think you knew it was safe to bring it up and sounds like he didnt react badly at all, or back off, or freak out, so I guess the proof is in the pudding as they say, no damage done! So dont worry about it and what a great answer you got anyway! Thats hugely positive and must enable you to continue having patience and getting on with your stuff as he has the intention of returning home he just doesnt know when or how. You have to be the bigger person (we all do) and give him lots of rope.

I think what Addie said was interesting
My H has also told me he's very much afraid of hurting me and doesn't want to hurt me again. It may be the same with your H.
.. that makes sense. I bet your H wouldnt want to put you and your D through this again. Makes me wonder if my BF feels taht too. In fact, I think he did when he expressed doubts back at the end of Feb. His friend advised not doing it to me a second time after being so devastated the first, he should only come back if he was 100% sure (no pressure hey!!), and my BF certainly didnt say anything to me at the time.

So perhaps he just wants time to be certain. You are obviously doing a great job of luring him back though, or keeping him interested for now!

Ali xxx
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Me: 37 BF: 34 T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
Depression confirmed: 4 Mar

Hi Good luck with the karoke. You got some cajones lady! I don't even sing in the shower!

Jen

I used to sing. Then my H made me sign a paper that said everytime I sing out loud I will give him 100 Euros. Thinking about it, my singing would be the only good reason for him to leave...

K

I'm tone deaf sunshine.

W2G, good luck and knock 'em dead

Woog, say no more. We alreday established we are made for each other...

Sorry W2G for hijaking, this love can't be a secret anymore...

S

W2G

Hi, I have not dropped by for a while. It sounds like things are going well for you. Keep up the good work. Have a nice weekend.

Hey Ms Whey..

These are techniques, not rules set in stone. It's good to test the waters occasionally. I wouldn't call that backsliding, especially when you learn from it.

Make a video and put it on YouTube. I wanna see you bring the house down with that song!

*hugs*

Hello W2G! Just stopping in to see how you're doing. I hope you're having a super-fab day today!

(((((hugs)))))

L.xx