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We here I go again.

It's so warm and sunny outside today...I decided to take my shower in the neighbors sprinklers!! Yes, in my bikini. I'm hoping oneday those men in white suits really come pick me up.

You guessed it......my water was shut off AGAIN, and I had just finished my 30 minutes on the treadmill. Thank you God for body spray

It's funny how my emotions react these days. I go through them rather quickly now. 30 minutes of feeling defeated, forgot about, tossed to the curb and no longer needed. And to think I cried again this weekend when I came across some long forgotten photos of him and I. You know, the ones that showed how happy and in loveeeeeee he/we were. But if you ask him...it was all a cover up of misery.

Then came the 20 minutes of anger! How could he do this? WHY is he doing this?? Why will this man not put the house up for sale? Hell, why won't he sign the papers when I want to put it up for sale?? Is he punishing me? What does his wife think? Is it him or me that is the crazy one??? No you do not need to answer that one thankyouverymuch!

Finally the sheer craziness of this hit me, it seems to be lasting the longest...which means humor. Like it's a good thing I have a huge supply of water in casies of hurricanes. Or the showering in the neighbors sprinklers.

Like its a good thing I filed that Contempt of Court motion last week....this should really solidify things! Nope, am not calling him either...I'll shower at work first.

The man is nuts and he's trying to take me with him.

Oh......the motion will be filed Thursday, it has to include the latest contempt.

I do have this huge THIRST! Could it be cos I have no water?

And the march forward continues......in the dessert...with no water

Hugs!!

Jeanette

When it rains it pours.


OOOOPS.


Bad choice of words.






Jeanette, you are doing well.

If you want an opinion, here's one.

Force him to sell and get yourself a condo.

Hahahaha...

I'm fine. I don't neeeeeeeeed water. Just got a nice bottle of Pinot Grigio from the Principal, it's in Andy's refrigerator chillin Something about Teacher Appreciation week. Hmmmm, I'm not a teacher but whatever.

Drunk dialin t'night

It just pisses me off he can order ovulation kits off ebay.....used ones but not stick to what he so desperately wanted.

OMG! I just had a thot......maybe he no showed all those times cuz his brood mare called and said she's ovulating and he had to go perform hahahahaha......I don't think he was able to get a standing ovation, I'm sure it was more of a flop

Fire sale.

and WHAT???

A fire sale......hmmmm, could probably pull that one off since there is NO WATER!! Thank goodness there is 3 bathrooms. Thats 3 flushes....or more if you only use one for the uhm...no need to flush right away business.

Dang....now I gotta pee. It's still 2 hours until dark, wonder if I can hold out that long.



Not sure what your referring to Jack, but I think it's the ovulation testing kit he bought on ebay....yes, it was used and was totally blessed cos they they the sellers produced 2 amazing children from it BUT.....it doesn't include the test strips. OH THANK YOU GOD!

Where oh where did my xhusband go....Oh where or where can he be?

I don't remember the rest of the lyrics, which is probably a good thing.

Hmph!

Hmm...nice. Why is your water being shut off? He doesn't pay it. Doesn't or isnt he supposed to give you money?

So I take it , you haven't spoken to him at all. Very interesting...

On the bright side, you have power!

So he is married? I am so confused.

Kiki.....

Don't be confused sweetie, it's actually all very simple.

His family imagined a wedding. They don't know whoes wedding they were talking about. He swears he's not married. He's trying to have a child, not sure with whom, one can only guess it's not his wife cos he's not married Ha! Could it be he has an OW on the OW?????

Yes, he is supposed to pay the utilites here. Court ordered. Hmmm.....those court orders don't seem to mean a damn thing. The Judge will no like this I think....hmmm.

I no longer wish to speak to him....so no, I haven't. I don't feel like listening to him lie anymore.

The Contempt will be filed Thursday. I shall have my attorney CALL HIM to inform him of the water shortage.

I do not get any utility bills here. He gets them at one of his many addresses.

If I had of known it was going to be turned off..I would have paid the past due amount. Now......I would have to pay 300+ to get it current. Aint happening.

It is going to get extremely interesting Kiki. I'm tired of playing stupid.

Jeanette can't you get the bills sent to you?

They are all in his name.

I'm lucky if they tell me anything......I have to look it up online.

3 months ago he sent me an email stating he would send me confirmation of bills paid.

I can't change the name on the bills Jack. Well...I take that back, I can change the name, but without the alimony I cannot afford it.

I do work. I have a decent paying job one that i've worked at over 7 years. I pay above and beyond my share....I do my own yard, I do my own car repairs, I take care of everything concerning this house except the payment.

This is a two person home.....he did not want it anymore.

I accept that.

Why can't he?

He brushes off the realtors I line up.......I need both of our signatures.

I can't even go to Surviving!!! Not that i want to....but hell.

Time to bring out the big guns.

ME!

You could make a redneck toilet and put a seat on a 5 gallon bucket.
You could rent a portapoty unit, they come with hand sanitizer now! only $75 a month, includes cleaning.
You could put a 55 gallon drum on the roof to collect rain and lay black hose back and forth and run one end in one of the bathroom windows. You'll have warm water for a quick shower.

Maybe he needs a visual aid to remember when the bills are due. Design it like an ovulation chart so he is familiar with how it works.

I hope Thursday goes well!