Sorry I misread and thought you said your wife was the one freaked out...I understand why you would want some positive attention/affection right about now. I do too. Unlike you I don't have any options for that and the only one I want to give it to me is H. I am sure it is going to take a lot to restore the PMA given what you are going through. Sorry Woog.
No worries BBJ. I think I need to be on my own right now. I'm considering going away for a long weekend by myself. Sort of a "gather my thoughts" weekend. Who knows, perhaps I'll quit my job and become a fly fishing guide.
Woog, At this point, maybe a long weekend with G27 would do you more good than being alone....but what do i know. I and many others told you to stay away a few weeks ago, now I'm not so sure anymore. You have to listen to your little voice. You need some PMA right now.......I feel for you.
So, I have decided to have a positive attitude today no matter what. The boat is going into the lake tomorrow and I'm pretending it is summer no matter what the weatherman says.
I got home last night and spend some good time with the kids. The wife went to bed at 6:45 pm. I think she must have been worned out from her late night "outing" with her new boyfriend. That or she just wanted to avoid me. I've noticed since she has actually started "dating" this guy she has been avoiding me as much as possible. I don't know whether or not she is ashamed or just uncomfortable.
My youngest son's birthday is on Memorial Day weekend and we are planning on going to a "dude" ranch to ride horses, fish, shoot and such. The wife was planning on going, but I'm wondering if she actually will go. Honestly, I'd be fine with her not going, but I think the kids would miss her.
I need to plan out my summer and start to book some vacation time. I keep reading about Kalni's vacation plans and I'm jealous.
Wow Woog, a boat too! You have a lot of toys. I too need to start planning out the summer. I am lucky that I have the summer off of work so I can do a lot with the Ds. D10 wants to do the whole "family" vacation. I told her that I don't think Daddy will be going. The Ds still don't know that H wants the big D. One of H's complaints to the family T is that I would plan things with the Ds and then invite him. Made him feel like he wasn't part of the family. SO at this point do I make an effort and ask him if he wants to do a vacation with us, then plan around him? It might be easier if your W didn't go to the dude ranch. I'm sure your kids will miss her, but it will probably be uncomfortable with her there.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
I didn't manage to get hold of the place on the beach today. I will try tomorrow as well. I 've been thinking how it will feel like to be on my own with the two kids, all day with swimming suits on and NO WORRIES!!! I'll make sure to fix that MMS feature on my phone by then and send him nice pictures from our vacation... (and have some nice looking men as background)...
I am glad you decided you'll be positive. Tomorrow is day off here. 1st of May. We make flower rings and place them outside our doors. Me and the kids watered my dad's garden today. What an amazing man, he has everything so well taken cared of.
Anyway, there are a couple of family bungalows on the beach on Serifos, if you guys want to have some real vacation, you ARE ALL invited...
W is already planning summer vaca with D7 and W's new girlfriends (without me) ....no harm done. As long as D7 has a good time. The way things are going, there is no way i am going away with W anywhere. May11th is coming up very soon. is it time to talk about mother's day yet?
