Well, I'm jumping into the shower now, then heading to her place to start this whole process.
Thanks to everyone, I promise to keep you posted.
I am so happy.
Wish us luck!
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
I have goosebumps all over my body and tears in my eyes and my stumach is churning with joy for you.
Oh my God, this is so amazing!!!!!!!
We haven't met, but I always read your thread, you are such an inspiration. After yesterday I wanted to post to you about bhopeful-- basically within a week after his W told him it was totally over she asked to move home--and I wanted to say--don't give up MM, you never know...
I AM SO HAPPY AND EXCITED FOR YOU I COULD CRY!!!!!!
Yes I am taking her back right away...as in, today.
She just called me and said "Just checking....are you still OK with this?". I said "Yep, how about you?" She said "Oh yes, absolutely!"
I am just knocking down some boxes, and I'll be there in an hour. This will be fun, interesting, and I'm sure, challenging. But it looks like we are both up to the challenge!
Mink, the problem with your sitch is that the highs and lows are so sudden and so quick. One day she's through and wants a divorce and the next she wants to try again! I can only imagine how emotionally draining that must be for you. I'll play devils advocate here, maybe rather than jumping at her wanting to move home you take some control and put boundaries of some type in place. She's all over the place right now and you can't depend on her emotional choices to be the same tomorrow as they are today. Many people on this BB have said that one of their regrets is that they took the WAS back way to quickly because they were so relieved. Take it slow, think things through and make good choices for Minkerman. Don't let her run this show. Again, these are just my thoughts off the top of my head. I'm sure others will chime in as well. I'll be thinkin' of ya today!
Great news. What a turn around. Please take it slow and remember what happened to the Fish. You are going to do fine. This si great news. Boy, it seems like when you are just ready to give up they come back.
I've never posted on your thread before, but what has happened to you is fantastic and I have to stop in and comment. There are so many threads where people are giving up to the inevitable -- it reminds me that it doesn't have to be inevitable. Thanks so much and good luck to you both.
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
Just another one that has been lurking and reading your sitch. I am so happy for you. Yesterday I was reading about "the break up" dinner and today ... WOW!!!
